Upset over sisters pregnancy - Page 2

BizyBee · Nov 30th, 2009, 07:35 AM

Sorry hun.

chelle7 · Dec 4th, 2009, 12:43 PM

Hello

I can totally relate to how people are feeling on here. I found out I was pregnant in April - after ttc for 9 months. then on my first scan was told I had had a silent miscarriage. I had to have a d anc c. My periods have been irregular since I came off the pill 18 months ago- I sometimes only get 1 every 3 or 4 months. My younger sister got pregnant the week I had to lose mine and she is now almost 5 months. My parents are thrilled about the new grandchild- one I should have given them in Feb next year. I have been put on Clomid now as we have been trying for so long. I feel very jealous about my sister and generally upset 90 per cent of the time.

Mum2bewaiting · Dec 4th, 2009, 12:53 PM

^ chelle7 that is similar too me, although my sisters due 3 weeks after ours should have been, my sister and mum have not been sensitive to how I'm feeling at all (I knew when she was 5 weeks, but she waited until after her 12 week scan to announce it which happened to be my birthday). The only way I have been able to cope is shut myself off from them at the minute and be selfish for once and focus on me... but it hurt so badly as she smoked, drank, wasn't TTC at all, infact it was so unplanned her oh suggested getting rid, again I'm the only one that know that and know it has sunk in he is over the moon... but it doesn't change anything for me...

No real advice but to look after u, and do what is right for u, to the op it sounds as though she has many people watching out for her...

Lou32 · Dec 6th, 2009, 06:03 AM

Just wanted to say that, even though I wish it wasn't so crappy for us all, it helps so much to know other people are feeling the same and that we're 'normal' to feel so upset. Soooo hope it will be our turn soon!!!x

readyforbaby · Dec 6th, 2009, 21:43 PM

I concur!

Nov 30th, 2009, 07:35 AM	#11
BizyBee Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: New York, USA Posts: 7,665	Sorry hun.

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Dec 4th, 2009, 12:43 PM	#12
chelle7 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Hampshire Posts: 616	Hello I can totally relate to how people are feeling on here. I found out I was pregnant in April - after ttc for 9 months. then on my first scan was told I had had a silent miscarriage. I had to have a d anc c. My periods have been irregular since I came off the pill 18 months ago- I sometimes only get 1 every 3 or 4 months. My younger sister got pregnant the week I had to lose mine and she is now almost 5 months. My parents are thrilled about the new grandchild- one I should have given them in Feb next year. I have been put on Clomid now as we have been trying for so long. I feel very jealous about my sister and generally upset 90 per cent of the time.

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Dec 4th, 2009, 12:53 PM	#13
Mum2bewaiting Other BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Leeds Posts: 3,481	^ chelle7 that is similar too me, although my sisters due 3 weeks after ours should have been, my sister and mum have not been sensitive to how I'm feeling at all (I knew when she was 5 weeks, but she waited until after her 12 week scan to announce it which happened to be my birthday). The only way I have been able to cope is shut myself off from them at the minute and be selfish for once and focus on me... but it hurt so badly as she smoked, drank, wasn't TTC at all, infact it was so unplanned her oh suggested getting rid, again I'm the only one that know that and know it has sunk in he is over the moon... but it doesn't change anything for me... No real advice but to look after u, and do what is right for u, to the op it sounds as though she has many people watching out for her...

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Dec 6th, 2009, 06:03 AM	#14
Lou32 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Up north, UK Posts: 325	Just wanted to say that, even though I wish it wasn't so crappy for us all, it helps so much to know other people are feeling the same and that we're 'normal' to feel so upset. Soooo hope it will be our turn soon!!!x

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Dec 6th, 2009, 21:43 PM	#15
readyforbaby Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Denver, CO. Posts: 1,226	I concur!

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