Dancingkaty1

hi there.....

well i went to see my doc today as still concerned about the bad low back ache i get from about 4 dpo right up until af shows...also explained the black/dark brown jelly discharge i got b4 af arrived this mth.....my doc said i should def ask my fs about having a lap & dye done as endrometriosis can be to blame?? i am currently on clomid 2nd cycle, been ttc for 16 mths, had a hycosy in sept, all fine. Im due to see my fs on 21st dec so will ask her then, my concern is i have mentioned the back ache & spotting i get b4 af arrives & she just shrugged it off & said you can go away & try & relax more or lets see if clomid helps....

anyone had a lap & dye?? im so nervous.....its such a blow as we even went to another fertility center last night and was considering iui or ivf......but if theres still something wrong with me i spose we will have to put it on hold....
xx

baby2gravy

hey dancingkaty1

I had a lap and HSG done just this last summer for stage 2 endo! doesn't hurt at all, but it really all depends on pain tolerence i think. I took 1 naproxen before the HSG and didn't feel a thing and after my lap a bit sore but nothing out of the ordinary for me i'm a tuff cookie lol don't be nervous there really is nothing to stress about and if i were you i would demand your symptoms to be looked at more carefully, i was trying for baby #2 for a year before i told my doc, i think i have endo she said no, just because your 2 sisters have it doesn't mean you have it, she went on maternity leave and i got a new doc and she said well if you think you have it then we will just have to do a lap, and thats what she did and when i came out of sugery she said my dear you were right and caught it before it got worse...stage 2 not too bad little bits and pieces here and there and she took it all out! and she advised us to try try for baby #2 so thats what we did but after 4 years still no luck so I'm trying pre-seed this month fingerz crossed and babygravy to everyone and babydust! xox

peekaboo

Sorry Katy, can't really help as never had a lap & dye but I'm sure plenty of others will be able to give advice. to you! xx

beauty

Why do you think you have endo tho?? I thought ladies with endo were in real bad pain?
Should i asked to be given a lap? I know idea if i have it!
x

BabyChristie

Hiya

I had my lap and dye last week and was diagnosed with moderate endo. The operation itself is scary beforehand but I recovered pretty quickly and wasn't as bad as I had thought. Even if it is endo it doesn't mean you can't do IUI or IVF - in fact my consultant has recommended that as it will get up pregnant quicker hopefully and then pregnancy makes the endo recede anyway.

Trouble with endo is that it can be symptom-less and serious and you can also have loads of symptoms and only have a little bit - and everything in between. But don't worry, you might have nothing and if you only had a little bit and they can remove it as part of the lap op, your fertility rate can go up by as much as 75% apparently so that's really good.

I think going for the lap is a really good idea, even if it only puts your mind at rest. If you've got any other questions, happy for you to send me a personal message and I can fill you in. Try not to worry honey, its honestly not that bad at all.

xxx

Rach27

Not necessarily. You can have no symptoms at all. I had painful periods, although until I struggled to get pregnant, I thought that was normal!

After going through the process myself, I would suggest a lap for anyone who has been through all the tests and drawn a blank (i.e. has been diagnosed with unexplained infertility). IMHO I think endo is at the root of many of these cases. I also got the impression the clinic would rather I had IVF anyway (as that way, they would get my money perhaps a couple of times!) but I am a born cynic! I had to go to a specialist separate to that clinic and got the op done on insurance. Unfortunately, a lap is the only way to diagnose endo but it also happens to be the way they treat it (by exision / burning) so you can get both done at the same time.

Worked for me!

All the best x

Dancingkaty1

my doc said endrometriosis symptoms include bad lower back ache & the blk discharge & bad period pains...all i have. Want to have the lap & dye done 2 chek b4 we go down the iui or ivf route as soooo expensive!!! Just wish that 21st dec would come round quickly so i can see my fs & get referred to have the lap & dye done.....im hoping theres not going to be a huuuge waiting list!! does anyone know where i could go private & pay 4 the procedure?? im in south east xx

Dancingkaty1

thank you 4 ur reply....what symptoms did u have?? glad to hear ur recovering well xx

muncho

i was diagosed with severe endo 2 weeks ago - no pains - regualr periods, it was by chance i foudn out..

dancing katy i have replied in the lap thread about the lap. i also had the hsg and hysteroscopy x

BabyChristie

My symptoms are: nagging lower back / bowel / anal pain and feeling like I need to poo (sorry tmi!) from about 7dpo, then when AF arrives crippling tummy and lower pack period pains (I generally lose a day a month off work), nausea, headaches, clotty and quite heavy bleeding although AF only lasts 2-3 days, constipation and occasionally anal bleeding. Much of this is due to the fact that I have a large patch on endo on my bowel but I also have scarring around my womb etc so its been going on for a while. Oh and deep pain during BDing too.

Chin up though chuck - you may not have it at all but best to get it checked. The 21st will be here before you know it...

The best site I've found with info about the lap op is http://www.endo-resolved.com/laparoscopy_advice.html

xxx