Same to you...be nice like kelly9 to have a nice surprise BFP just before starting IVF!

Hi all

I know, my body wa splaying games with me! Sore boobs (which I dont really suffer from when AF is due) Lower back ache and my temps were staying high. Now Ive just turned into grumpy cow!
Hope she doesnt show for you though hun!
Cazd - how did you get on at your appointment? xx

Oooohh cazd had an appointment today? Do tell!

Hi ladies

Would like to join
Feeling blue as BFN today just rubbish! Had mc jan 09 14 weeks and mc sept 09 at 16 weeks (my waters broke early 2nd time devastating) So although we have only been actively trying for 18 mths it has been torture to get so far and lose them but still feel that I was never pregnant at all (never felt early movements nor had a bump)
I don't know about you guys but I am finding it exhausting and the cause of many arguments at home ... not always great for when you need to be romantic eh?

OBE! I'm so sorry she got you
its absolutely no consolation but at least you can get things moving with the hospital.
its still properly pants though xxx

kcarlile - hello I'm so sorry to hear what you've been through - it must be terrible.
I can't relate to the m/c but my man and I have found TTC really stressful and we've fought a lot more because of it - I'm trying to hold back some rage from him right now 'cos I need him to do a S/A today !

As for my HSG - the results were great - thanks for asking guys!
I saw my TWO tubes on the screen all full of liquid and not blocked at all.
the right tube just sprayed out to nothingness where my ovary was removed but the other tube just stopped where it should - all was good.
the appointment was cancelled when I got there 'cos I was on CD11 and hadn't abstained from - no-one told me I had to!!
I cried my eyes out on the way out - I guess the relief of the nerves but the upset at not having the HSG - OH was really angry with me for being so emotional!
but then after we left they called back and said they'd do it - so I went back...
It did hurt - the speculum and the catheter were very painful
but the liquid bit didn't hurt at all and it was great to see my pelvic bones and tiny uterus and wiggly tubes on screen!
I had quite abit of spotting yesterday and cramps like AF was about to arrive...
but I'm OK now!

OH has to do a sample today - Im' not sure if its OK for me to take it in or if he has to?
anyone know?
I've tried to call the department but there's no reply...

hiya kcarlile! sorry about hun...so what cycle day are you on 2day?
Well welcome aboard our ride to all become mummies!! some will be soon ,some may take just a little longer but we will all have our bubs in our arms someday!! xx

Cazd...i took my DH s/a in...he waited in the carpark lol. after all it was me doing it to get it(if ya know what i mean hehe!!) and then i kept it warm inbetween my boobs as was a good half hour drive to the hospital xx

just came back online to say Thank You for letting me know you took the sample and they were OK with that...
just so all the girls can see what a STAR you are!!

but that's so funny - you kept it warm in your @@s!
I'm gonna stop calling the hospital now - 'cos all I'm getting is a ring ring ring ring...
I'll drive the sample over - and I might just try keeping it about my person too !

Aww ta huni! lol...me brothers OH is a midwife and she knows all about my tests and when i told her we had to do two SA she advised me the best way to keep it warm was inbetween them! i was driving to the hospital each time to..cud u imagine if i got pulled over!!!!!!!!!!!!!! xx