Long term TTC buddy wanted!UPDATEDMost of us did it! - Page 32

obe · Feb 7th, 2010, 15:57 PM

Or sparkle, your not useless! Sounds like your feeling down though hun. I know its hard when it seems like every women around you is expecting and you just feel like screaming!!!! I often have those moments. Just found out my OH mates wife is expecting, they have only been trying for f**king 5 mins! ARRRRRR!
Things will get better! xx

sparkle83 · Feb 7th, 2010, 16:18 PM

thing is, I'm trying to tell myself that, but each time I come back to 'well, it hasnt got any better in ten years, its not liikely to now'.
I'm gonna give it til after AF, incase its in part from the provera, and then I'll have to go back on anti-depressants. I am really not coping, I'm constantly on the edge of not keeping my temper and holding my tongue. I can't do this much longer. I've been waiting ten years for my life to properly start. what if it never does, what if I never, ever get there?

subaru555 · Feb 8th, 2010, 04:26 AM

You will get there sweetheart, You will, have hope, stay strong xx

obe · Feb 8th, 2010, 12:29 PM

Or sparkle, you will get there!!! You must been felling very low hun, but dont give up, keep your self going. Easier said then done, I know
Have you spoken to your doctor about how your feeling? Have you thought about doing something like reflexology or accupuncture?
Hey Subaru, hows things going?
xx

sparkle83 · Feb 8th, 2010, 14:12 PM

I can't afford to do either, unfortunately. Its not quite so bad today, but I just feel like theres no hope any more. rapidly coming up to our ten yr ttc date, and it's 4 yrs ago this month that I last got pg, and havent had a natural af in years.

obe · Feb 8th, 2010, 16:32 PM

I wish there was something I could say to make you feel better! You will get through this hun. Stay positive and focused.
Are you able to talk to your OH about how your feeling?
xx

sparkle83 · Feb 8th, 2010, 16:42 PM

he listens and understands, but gets frustrated and annoyed that he can't do anything to fix it

cazd · Feb 8th, 2010, 18:00 PM

oh sparkle - I know just how you feel... like lifes on hold - forever!

sparkle83 · Feb 9th, 2010, 14:44 PM

yep, I was saying to DH last night that I feel like I'm waiting for our lives to begin.

getting spotting, so possibly AF will arrive tonight/tomorrow, and then its bcp for a month. not quite so bad today

obe · Feb 10th, 2010, 12:34 PM

How you feeling today Sparkle? Hope your ok
xx

Feb 7th, 2010, 15:57 PM	#311
obe Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: uk, West Yorkshire Posts: 1,170	Or sparkle, your not useless! Sounds like your feeling down though hun. I know its hard when it seems like every women around you is expecting and you just feel like screaming!!!! I often have those moments. Just found out my OH mates wife is expecting, they have only been trying for f**king 5 mins! ARRRRRR! Things will get better! xx

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Feb 7th, 2010, 16:18 PM	#312
sparkle83 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: North Devon Posts: 892	thing is, I'm trying to tell myself that, but each time I come back to 'well, it hasnt got any better in ten years, its not liikely to now'. I'm gonna give it til after AF, incase its in part from the provera, and then I'll have to go back on anti-depressants. I am really not coping, I'm constantly on the edge of not keeping my temper and holding my tongue. I can't do this much longer. I've been waiting ten years for my life to properly start. what if it never does, what if I never, ever get there?

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Feb 8th, 2010, 04:26 AM	#313
subaru555 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Stirling, Scotland Posts: 2,606	You will get there sweetheart, You will, have hope, stay strong xx

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Feb 8th, 2010, 12:29 PM	#314
obe Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: uk, West Yorkshire Posts: 1,170	Or sparkle, you will get there!!! You must been felling very low hun, but dont give up, keep your self going. Easier said then done, I know Have you spoken to your doctor about how your feeling? Have you thought about doing something like reflexology or accupuncture? Hey Subaru, hows things going? xx

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Feb 8th, 2010, 14:12 PM	#315
sparkle83 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: North Devon Posts: 892	I can't afford to do either, unfortunately. Its not quite so bad today, but I just feel like theres no hope any more. rapidly coming up to our ten yr ttc date, and it's 4 yrs ago this month that I last got pg, and havent had a natural af in years.

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Feb 8th, 2010, 16:32 PM	#316
obe Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: uk, West Yorkshire Posts: 1,170	I wish there was something I could say to make you feel better! You will get through this hun. Stay positive and focused. Are you able to talk to your OH about how your feeling? xx

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Feb 8th, 2010, 16:42 PM	#317
sparkle83 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: North Devon Posts: 892	he listens and understands, but gets frustrated and annoyed that he can't do anything to fix it

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Feb 8th, 2010, 18:00 PM	#318
cazd Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Kent, UK Posts: 7,839	oh sparkle - I know just how you feel... like lifes on hold - forever!

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Feb 9th, 2010, 14:44 PM	#319
sparkle83 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: North Devon Posts: 892	yep, I was saying to DH last night that I feel like I'm waiting for our lives to begin. getting spotting, so possibly AF will arrive tonight/tomorrow, and then its bcp for a month. not quite so bad today

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Feb 10th, 2010, 12:34 PM	#320
obe Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: uk, West Yorkshire Posts: 1,170	How you feeling today Sparkle? Hope your ok xx

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