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Old Sep 28th, 2009, 18:06 PM   #1
chefamy1122
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Infertility SUCKS


I haven't been posting much in this section recently b/c there is nothing new to report on my end, and seeing all the beautiful ladies on here struggling to conceive breaks my heart. I wish I could wave a magic wand and bring babies to all my LTTC sisters

I hate the way infertility makes me feel. Within the last week, 3 Facebook friends have announced their pregnancy. I was actually handling that pretty well, but today my friend at work came in after his wife's ultrasound and announced they were having twins. I lost it and started crying hysterically (thankfully I was able to keep my composure until he walked away) I feel like such an asshole for being so upset. I honestly am happy for him and his wife- he is 42, she is 38- this is their 1st pregnancy and they are great people and are going to be wonderful parents, but the jealousy I feel right now is tearing me up inside. Pretty much everybody at my work knows my situation, and I had a lot of people trying to make me feel better, but they just don't "get it"


 
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Old Sep 28th, 2009, 18:19 PM   #2
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i know it's so hard darling


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Old Sep 28th, 2009, 18:33 PM   #3
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xxxxxxx


 
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Old Sep 28th, 2009, 18:39 PM   #4
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Old Sep 28th, 2009, 19:11 PM   #5
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I know honey, I know....


 
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Old Sep 28th, 2009, 19:28 PM   #6
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you said it!
i keep thinking it is preparing us to be amazing parents.


 
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Old Sep 28th, 2009, 19:30 PM   #7
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It is just such an emotional roller coaster... just when I think I am doing better, I have days like today where I can't stop crying.


 
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Old Sep 29th, 2009, 16:09 PM   #8
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We know the feeling hun, you dont need to feel bad about your honest feelings here.

Facebook is a bit like the devil when you are TTC, every day for me its an announcement or scan pics or bump pics or birth announcements, if its not pregnancy its just in general that everyone seems to be putting updates about their kids and happy families. Grrrrr


 
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Old Sep 29th, 2009, 16:18 PM   #9
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I know hunni...everyday im like WHY ME? WHAT THE HELL DID I DO TO DESERVE THIS

I just hold on to the hope that one day it WILL be my day, and untill then i enjoy what i have right now...a amazing partner, a naughty dog, good friends and family.

I have a days were i cry but i also have some amazing happy days that i cherish!

Stay strong hunni...stay strong everyone, it will be our turn soon

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Old Sep 29th, 2009, 16:25 PM   #10
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Originally Posted by littlehush View Post

I know hunni...everyday im like WHY ME? WHAT THE HELL DID I DO TO DESERVE THIS

I just hold on to the hope that one day it WILL be my day, and untill then i enjoy what i have right now...a amazing partner, a naughty dog, good friends and family.

I have a days were i cry but i also have some amazing happy days that i cherish!

Stay strong hunni...stay strong everyone, it will be our turn soon

xxx
lol naughty dog, i have one of those!!


 
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