Oh hunnie, don't apologise for being down. It's completely understandable.
You and your OH are an inspiration to others who have been ttc a while.
You've made me realise that I should stop wallowing in my own self-pity. AF arrived yesterday and I've been so down since, but I am so lucky to already have 2 lovely kids. I don't know how long-timers like yourselves cope during the holidays. You're right in that the focus is all on the kids, and that's not right.
And NeyNey, my MIL did a similar thing. She sat there and said "Next year we're really going to struggle for space aren't we?". When I asked why she said that she would have another grandchild by then wouldn't she? I also went and had a little cry in the loo. People can be so insensitive sometimes, and it's hard to bite your tongue. We'll show them all when we get our BFP's.
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