How many ICSI/IVF/FET before a positive - POLL - Page 6

chocci · Jun 24th, 2009, 05:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Mervs Mum

Maybe I have Bramble but when she is repeatedly saying that people 'on here' 'just dont care' 'cant be assed' just because people might not have seen her thread or not actually have anything to share THEN adds to that how much better another forum is, I feel defensive - sorry but I do. You can tell I've been around here a while and I suppose that's why I dont take to kindly to it.
You are very welcome to read both my journals.

I can tell you now that they contain NOTHING irrelevant to my TTC or pregnancy journeys as far as I am concerned

I never repeatedly said it. I made a comment and i would have thought by now you would realise that the comment was made thorugh hurt, pain and emotion. I too understand the need to stick up for people and things but i also understand when to lay off or it can be seen as bullyish behavoir. if this thread has no relevance to you then please just leave, if i have upset you i am sorry but sometimes if someone says something you dont like its best to walk away or at least try to understand the pain that person may be going through rather than adding to that pain by arguing with them.

Mervs Mum · Jun 24th, 2009, 06:06 AM

I think we will have to agree to disagree about you repeating certain phrases. I dont think it will be helpful to quote you again and again at this point.

I understand emotions run high in ALL areas of this forum - it's about what we individuals all want or care about most - our hoped for children and those children when we are finally blessed with them. So I fully understand thing are said in emotion - I have done it myself. But people have pointed it out to me to make me see how my comments might be taken by others in a different situation or with another perspective.

We ALL have to try to be considerate to one another so if you feel I havent been , I am truely sorry but there are always more than one perspective.

chocci · Jun 24th, 2009, 06:15 AM

So how do we get the moderators to start a thread with just fertility treatment success stories or maybe one that incorperates success after hte pain of miscarriage. I think it will be of great benefit to many were they can go to it for inspiration and read brief snippets of stories where people tried and tried and tried again BUT finally got their BFP!! We all need inspiration, we all need hope, it helps us continue, like i said i appreciate the journals but not everyone hads the time to look through them all and sometimes we just want their story in a nutshell.....we want to goet straight to the point to the bit that makes us smile and feel positive.....we want that good feeling!!

How do we contact the mods?

Mervs Mum · Jun 24th, 2009, 06:20 AM

PM them or post in the Forum Help & Testing area. Or look around the forum and you'll find that they post threads asking for suggestions......

The BabyandBump Team

chocci · Jun 24th, 2009, 06:24 AM

Ta will try today

Mervs Mum · Jun 24th, 2009, 06:25 AM

Good luck on the rest of your journey.

Tracie87 · Jun 24th, 2009, 06:49 AM

I think alot of women find it hard to talk about the IVF etc journey as for some it has been very hard and long.. i no if i ever get my baby threw IVF i never wanna think about all these years of hurt.

Mervs Mum · Jun 24th, 2009, 06:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Tracie87

I think alot of women find it hard to talk about the IVF etc journey as for some it has been very hard and long.. i no if i ever get my baby threw IVF i never wanna think about all these years of hurt.

Big

Tracie x

Lilly123 · Jun 24th, 2009, 07:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Brambletess

Mervs Mum, I think you have blown what Chocci said out of proportion. There are sites that have better success story threads and this thread is about trying to document our own on BNB a bit better. A forum is a group of people and we form friendships and want to share amongst each other. Like us all chocci feels part of this forum and wants to share these with the friends she has met here like she has seen on other forums. The success feels more real amongst people you have shared the journey with. I really do not think she was slagging off journals and if she can't be assed to trawl through journals, neither can i to be honest. I tend to have a connection with people than read their journal so i can get to know them better. I wouldn't get anything else done if i read them all. I will have a read of yours though Merv Mum.

When people say things on forums that i don't agree with i try and take a step back and respect their emotions at that time. We all moan at times, we all vent our frustration and we all cry at times and we probably get pissed off at other forum members too! then the next minute we are all fine again.

I agree with you I think we need to let this lie now and I think it has been blown way out of proportion.. we all say things we dont mean when we are upset and hurting... lets put that behind us and move on...

Mervs Mum · Jun 24th, 2009, 07:27 AM

Agreed here

Jun 24th, 2009, 06:06 AM	#52
Mervs Mum Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: somewhere over the rainbow..... Posts: 21,342	I think we will have to agree to disagree about you repeating certain phrases. I dont think it will be helpful to quote you again and again at this point. I understand emotions run high in ALL areas of this forum - it's about what we individuals all want or care about most - our hoped for children and those children when we are finally blessed with them. So I fully understand thing are said in emotion - I have done it myself. But people have pointed it out to me to make me see how my comments might be taken by others in a different situation or with another perspective. We ALL have to try to be considerate to one another so if you feel I havent been , I am truely sorry but there are always more than one perspective.
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Jun 24th, 2009, 06:15 AM	#53
chocci Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 1,827	So how do we get the moderators to start a thread with just fertility treatment success stories or maybe one that incorperates success after hte pain of miscarriage. I think it will be of great benefit to many were they can go to it for inspiration and read brief snippets of stories where people tried and tried and tried again BUT finally got their BFP!! We all need inspiration, we all need hope, it helps us continue, like i said i appreciate the journals but not everyone hads the time to look through them all and sometimes we just want their story in a nutshell.....we want to goet straight to the point to the bit that makes us smile and feel positive.....we want that good feeling!! How do we contact the mods?

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Jun 24th, 2009, 06:20 AM	#54
Mervs Mum Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: somewhere over the rainbow..... Posts: 21,342	PM them or post in the Forum Help & Testing area. Or look around the forum and you'll find that they post threads asking for suggestions...... The BabyandBump Team
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Jun 24th, 2009, 06:24 AM	#55
chocci Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 1,827	Ta will try today

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Jun 24th, 2009, 06:25 AM	#56
Mervs Mum Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: somewhere over the rainbow..... Posts: 21,342	Good luck on the rest of your journey.
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Jun 24th, 2009, 06:49 AM	#57
Tracie87 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: May 2008 Location: In a pineapple Posts: 10,054	I think alot of women find it hard to talk about the IVF etc journey as for some it has been very hard and long.. i no if i ever get my baby threw IVF i never wanna think about all these years of hurt.

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Jun 24th, 2009, 07:27 AM	#60
Mervs Mum Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: somewhere over the rainbow..... Posts: 21,342	Agreed here
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