How many ICSI/IVF/FET before a positive - POLL - Page 3

chocci · Jun 23rd, 2009, 16:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Tanya

I have an idea.. lets post a thread with IVF success stories... which details how many times it took before BFP, how many eggs, how many embies, how many embies transferred and then reason for infertility. what do u guys think?

xxx

Haha i already did it and got such little response i have given up, people dont seem to be able to be assed answering see, seems people dont really care to be honest!:
http://www.babyandbump.com/problems-...tive-poll.html

chocci · Jun 23rd, 2009, 16:22 PM

Arh i see i thought this was on anotehr thread, give it a go if you want tanya, but i have tried to start many threads woith a more positive vibe and noone really seems interested, i will stick wit hthe fertilityfriends forum i think, seems like not many bother on here for some reason, i will keep my eyes open for your threa, hope you have more luck than me!

Mervs Mum · Jun 23rd, 2009, 16:26 PM

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Originally Posted by chocci

Haha i already did it and got such little response i have given up, people dont seem to be able to be assed answering see, seems people dont really care to be honest

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Originally Posted by chocci

but i have tried to start many threads woith a more positive vibe and noone really seems interested, i will stick wit hthe fertilityfriends forum i think, seems like not many bother on here for some reason

I dont think this is fair. People have been replying to your thread but you keep saying how people cant be 'assed' and they 'dont care' and FF is a better forum.....that's not very 'positive' is it

chocci · Jun 23rd, 2009, 16:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Mervs Mum

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Originally Posted by chocci

Haha i already did it and got such little response i have given up, people dont seem to be able to be assed answering see, seems people dont really care to be honest

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Originally Posted by chocci

but i have tried to start many threads woith a more positive vibe and noone really seems interested, i will stick wit hthe fertilityfriends forum i think, seems like not many bother on here for some reason

I dont think this is fair. People have been replying to your thread but you keep saying how people cant be 'assed' and they 'dont care' and FF is a better forum.....that's not very 'positive' is it

Well its how i feel unfortunately, not just this thread i have started numerous and hardly get a response, i think, like many others i have chatted with recently its time for a break from here, too much negativity on these boards, its just my opinion but it never used to be like that just seems a lot of people have left these boards recently for the same reason!

Mervs Mum · Jun 23rd, 2009, 16:46 PM

Obviously people tend to stick to the boards that are relevant to them but if you (I mean 'members' not you personally

) look around the boards (I have been here since TTC) you'll find lots of threads that get few or even no replies. It really depends who's on at the time of posting or who sees it and decides to reply. People cant expect every thread they start to turn into a hot topic just because they think it's a great idea

alice&bump · Jun 23rd, 2009, 16:59 PM

erm, whats to say there's not just a low number of people on here that have had IVF etc?? if people havent had the experiences, they can hardly answer your questions can they?? you might get more response on FF cos there's a lot more people in that situation. and people might not necessarily come into this area once they've got preg/had babies. most poeple on here are really friendly and will answer whatever they can. but even now after being a member for over a year and having 6000 posts, i still have threads that have no answers. its just that some threads people cant reply to.

wrightywales · Jun 23rd, 2009, 17:04 PM

i am in 2ww of my 1st IVF so havent got a clue. i'd love it to work 1st time but know that it might not happen just have to wait and see

chocci · Jun 23rd, 2009, 17:06 PM

I think i have been reading the wrong boards to be honest and got dragged down by the negativity and its put me in a bad mood haha (not me at all to be frank), i have just had a shit week really after finding out last wed that my ICSi had failed so was in need of inspiration and a little dissapointed that hardly anyone replied to this thread although i am greatful for those who did, seems once people have their BFP they simply leave and thats it really. I thought this would be a nice thread for lots of people feeling down and needing inspiration if they go through the same as me, i was thinking more for others in the future than for me if i am totally frank and thats why i am a little fed up that not many people have shared their stories....... I found some nice threads on other forums with this kind of thing on so thought it would be nice to start one on here for the members on here...hey ho never mind you live and learn

Mervs Mum · Jun 23rd, 2009, 17:06 PM

Good luck Wrightywales!! Fingers crossed for you

chocci · Jun 23rd, 2009, 17:11 PM

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Originally Posted by alice&bump

erm, whats to say there's not just a low number of people on here that have had IVF etc?? if people havent had the experiences, they can hardly answer your questions can they?? you might get more response on FF cos there's a lot more people in that situation. and people might not necessarily come into this area once they've got preg/had babies. most poeple on here are really friendly and will answer whatever they can. but even now after being a member for over a year and having 6000 posts, i still have threads that have no answers. its just that some threads people cant reply to.

To answer your points:

Firstly, I posted a link to this thread on the BFP thread i know many people on there have had the experience they are in the LTTTC BFP announcments after all and there is also a thread called for MAY IVF with apprently lots of positives!

Secondly this thread is becoming hot topic now once i made a controversial statement

Never mind i dont want to argue with anyone i have just noticed it alot recently on these boards, again sorry its just an opinion!

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chocci Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 1,827	Arh i see i thought this was on anotehr thread, give it a go if you want tanya, but i have tried to start many threads woith a more positive vibe and noone really seems interested, i will stick wit hthe fertilityfriends forum i think, seems like not many bother on here for some reason, i will keep my eyes open for your threa, hope you have more luck than me!

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alice&bump Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2008 Location: Manchester Posts: 8,703	erm, whats to say there's not just a low number of people on here that have had IVF etc?? if people havent had the experiences, they can hardly answer your questions can they?? you might get more response on FF cos there's a lot more people in that situation. and people might not necessarily come into this area once they've got preg/had babies. most poeple on here are really friendly and will answer whatever they can. but even now after being a member for over a year and having 6000 posts, i still have threads that have no answers. its just that some threads people cant reply to.

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wrightywales On a break (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: North Wales, UK Posts: 959	i am in 2ww of my 1st IVF so havent got a clue. i'd love it to work 1st time but know that it might not happen just have to wait and see

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Jun 23rd, 2009, 17:06 PM	#28
chocci Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 1,827	I think i have been reading the wrong boards to be honest and got dragged down by the negativity and its put me in a bad mood haha (not me at all to be frank), i have just had a shit week really after finding out last wed that my ICSi had failed so was in need of inspiration and a little dissapointed that hardly anyone replied to this thread although i am greatful for those who did, seems once people have their BFP they simply leave and thats it really. I thought this would be a nice thread for lots of people feeling down and needing inspiration if they go through the same as me, i was thinking more for others in the future than for me if i am totally frank and thats why i am a little fed up that not many people have shared their stories....... I found some nice threads on other forums with this kind of thing on so thought it would be nice to start one on here for the members on here...hey ho never mind you live and learn

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