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Nov 27th, 2007, 03:36 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  |  arrrrrrggggggggh need to vent
my dh and i have been ttc for 2 yrs in this time we have seen family and friends have children there has been 8 babies in the last 12 months and in this time we have smiled and been happy for the couples even though i felt like  BUT i had a friend that i rang yesterday as i was feeling abit low about it all and she tells me she is pregnant and getting an abortion as her son is only 10months old.   |
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Nov 27th, 2007, 03:54 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  |  Awe...Does she know that you have been TTC for 2 years.....That is very insensitive (sp) of her....
I completley feel your frustration |
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Nov 27th, 2007, 04:23 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Abortion? Sad. Tell her you will gladly take the baby! |
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Nov 27th, 2007, 05:50 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | I'm so sorry hun
I think by the sounds of it you've been dealing with all of this with dignity and pure strength, but I think that phone call from your friend would be enough to make a piece of concrete break!
If she knows your history, then she is being very insensitive and really should keep such things to herself.
I am sending you all the  in the world for your very own BFP ond day soon |
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Nov 27th, 2007, 06:56 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | when she told me it was literally after i had just finished saying how drpressing ttc can be at times etc. so yer she knows |
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Nov 27th, 2007, 10:45 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | mayz, I cannot believe that! Did you say anything or were you in too much shock that she had the hyde to say that to you in the first place?
Finding friends that understand the TTC blues is really hard, thats what I love so much about this forum, the support is always there.
Only 4 of my close friends know about our infertility problems, and only one of them that I talk to about it often. One of them infact LAUGHED when I told her can you believe. I was in shock at that but just gave a big pause and she was like 'oh sorry' and I said that we didn't at all find it funny. I haven't since said anything to her now, she no longer deserves to know my feelings.
I'm so sorry that you had to experience such a conversation, but please know i'm here if you ever want to talk |
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Nov 27th, 2007, 10:52 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | How sad that she has said that to you! I know that some people don't understand or experience the harder side of trying for you own family but theres a little bit of sense needed only to realise that what she has discussed with you is totally unacceptable & insensitive infact I would have to let her know how you felt.
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Nov 27th, 2007, 14:22 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | aawwww thats teribble how insenative of her xxx ((((((((((hugs))))))))) |
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