mayz83

thanks every one

avistar

It really amazes me how people are sometimes....I am sorry this happened to you. I would have just told her how I felt right then and there. I know of a girl who got preggo 6 weeks after having her first and she is keeping it. Maybe she felt like telling you because she feels close to you <?> and perhaps didn't mean to up set you with such news....Does she know of your ttc?? Even so, that news is horrible to hear for you and her unborn child. Try to do your best to focus on what you need to do to keep strong and positive

mayz83

my "friend" had a miscarriage today and rang saying she was a little upset and thought id understand so could she use my shoulder to cry on but then went on saying lucky it was just a ball of cells still so at least it wasnt a life wasted.i just wanted to slap her, hence we r no longer friends

shimmyshimmy

That does seem insensitive.
Speak to her, and say to her that you cannot get over her bringing that up with you at this time.
I do not think she understands what is going on with your life. This is really something she should have kept to herself, or spoken to another friend about.

My sister in law has been ttc for over a year, and now I am pregnant and am really worrying how this will make her feel. It is something your friend should really have thought about.
Some issues are very sensitive, and in this case it is something that she should have been thought about deeply before announcing to you. She sounds very thoughtless and inconsiderate.Definitely speak to her.

I am so sorry for the frustrations you must be feeling, and I hope your turn is just around the corner.

Take care and g.l

x

avistar

You would think that she would be relieved, right? Maybe just spend some time away from her and talk to her about how you feel once you feel like you can. I know friends can be insensitive sometimes, but we all make mistakes. If you weren't really that close to her then I can understand wanting to break ties. Try not to worry about it, if that is possible.... We can only control ourselves and our actions.

FJL

OMG, she needs to be slapped mayz!

She just does not think before she speaks. I think she needs to know that what she is saying to you is not only extremely inappropriate, but very hurtful. If you feel you're strong enough to tell her that, then I think it would be a great thing. Who knows, it might prevent her from hurting someone else in your situation down the track?

So sorry again that you have to have even heard those words

PitBullMommy

I can't believe she would say that you...especially knowing your history and feelings. How self-centered! Not much of a friend, I'd say! Sending you lots of baby dust!