Welcome to BabyandBump's Long Term TTC & Assisted Conception Forum - Problems TTC? Endometriosis, PCOS, secondary infertility, IVF, IUI, egg share, surrogacy, sperm donor Share your journey & find support here. This thread is called 'Sick of sex!' and is in our Trying To Conceive Forums section. | 
Nov 21st, 2007, 23:01 PM
|
#1 | | TTC #1 with IVF Chat happy BnB member
Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Australia
Posts: 983
Thanked others: 190
Thanked 272 times in 238 posts
I'm Currently Feeling:  | Sick of sex!
Is it just me, or are other long term TTC'ers sick of sex too 
Sure, it was fun in the beginning but now its all timed and a bit of an anxious time each month its kinda taken the fun out of it 
Even DH is sick of it and we find ourselves each month going "not again" and celebrating when its over!
Surely trying to make a baby shouldn't have to feel like this, but I guess when you prepare youself for yet another disapointment and just have sex to get pregnant its not exactly romantic!
Ok...please tell me i'm not the only one  |
__________________
| | Status: Online
|  | |
Nov 21st, 2007, 23:03 PM
|
#2 | | Pg with #1 after 3 years! BabyandBump Team
Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Glasgow
Posts: 10,622
Thanked others: 38
Thanked 709 times in 642 posts
I'm Currently Feeling:  | Nope definatley not the only one.
Right now i could happily go without but then i keep thinking well we wont have any chance at all if we dont do it even the once! |
__________________
| | Status: Offline
| | |
Nov 22nd, 2007, 00:00 AM
|
#3 | | Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB member
Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Ontario, Canada
Posts: 267
Thanked others: 13
Thanked 43 times in 43 posts
| yeah it's changed for us too 
we used to bd about twice a week but now after doing it 2/3 days in a row during o, we barely do it at any other time of the month. |
__________________
| | Status: Offline
| | |
Nov 22nd, 2007, 00:01 AM
|
#4 | | Other Senior BnB member
Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Warrington
Posts: 8,283
Thanked others: 182
Thanked 721 times in 718 posts
I'm Currently Feeling:  | aaawwww hunni this is a process u will have to go through to get ur baby so just think evrytime ur BD the nearer u may be getting to that mircale baby the other alternate is not to worry and stress and just do it when u want it instead ogf making it out to be a task |
__________________
| | Status: Offline
| | |
Nov 22nd, 2007, 01:39 AM
|
#5 | | TTC #1 with IVF Chat happy BnB member
Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Australia
Posts: 983
Thanked others: 190
Thanked 272 times in 238 posts
I'm Currently Feeling: | We always go hard core (heheeh) around O time, but apart from that hardly do it. We used to do it out of love and enjoyment a good 4 times a week. Now its only for a baby. Its almost like infertility has ruined our sex lives! |
__________________
| | Status: Online
| | |
Nov 22nd, 2007, 01:53 AM
|
#6 | | wife, mum, and pregnant Active BnB member
Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: suffolk
Posts: 585
Thanked others: 92
Thanked 78 times in 76 posts
I'm Currently Feeling:  | what about sizzeling it up a bit, does not have to be just the bedroom.... |
__________________
| | Status: Offline
| | |
Nov 22nd, 2007, 06:45 AM
|
#7 | | mad cat wifey! BnB Addict
Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: In a dungeon lol
Posts: 4,082
Thanked others: 479
Thanked 427 times in 417 posts
I'm Currently Feeling:  | you have to find other ways to make it fun
lingerie
toys
anything |
__________________
| | Status: Offline
| | |
Nov 22nd, 2007, 11:28 AM
|
#8 | | Chat happy BnB member
Join Date: May 2007 Location: Scotland
Posts: 773
Thanked others: 259
Thanked 106 times in 104 posts
I'm Currently Feeling:  | Hi FLJ,
I can totally sympathize (sorry sp) before we found out oh had azoospermia sex got like that for us, it was always planned and felt more like a chore than anything else there was so much pressure on BD and always found myse3lf wanting it over with annd wondering if it worked since we have stopped trying our sex lives have went back to normal and we are enjoying it again.
xx |
__________________
| | Status: Offline
| | |
Nov 22nd, 2007, 13:11 PM
|
#9 | | ♥ Caitlins Mummy BabyandBump Admin
Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: North Wales
Posts: 28,119
Thanked others: 1,760
Thanked 1,817 times in 1,450 posts
I'm Currently Feeling:  | Are you still counting the cycle day etc? If you are you want to try and stop doing that part of things and losing yourself somewhere & ya know ... get on with it  lol
Hope you know what Im trying to say | | | | Status: Offline
| | |
Nov 26th, 2007, 02:00 AM
|
#10 | | Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB member
Join Date: Nov 2007
Posts: 11
Thanked others: 0
Thanked 2 times in 2 posts
| Yeah I am kind of tired of it too! | | | | Status: Offline
| | | Thread Tools | | | | Display Modes |  Linear Mode | 
Similar Threads | | Thread | Thread Starter | Forum | Replies | Last Post | | sick! | melbo | Pregnancy - First Trimester | 27 | Aug 6th, 2007 12:50 PM | | Itchy bb's and feel sick as a sick dog ! | Donna79x | Trying To Conceive | 33 | May 25th, 2007 16:13 PM | | Sick | Natalie&Karl | Pregnancy - Third Trimester | 6 | May 11th, 2007 11:56 AM | | Im Sick | Suz | General Chatter | 12 | Apr 24th, 2007 00:40 AM | All times are GMT +1. The time now is 05:05 AM. | |
