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BlackBerry25 · Nov 13th, 2009, 19:16 PM

You are an amazing woman and mother

I have been wanting to post all day, and I really don't have the right words to say.

Lakai is such a miracle, and if adoption is the route you guys decide to go, you will make an excellent mother for that baby as well. I think you have the best possible attitude about the whole situation and have developed a strength that most of us don't have (I know I don't) and that is what makes you such a good mother to Lakai. I really believe he is such a fighter because of you

Anyways, I am here for you in any way possible!

I am SOOOO sorry this has happened. It is horrible. I hate that they did this to you.

Foogirl · Nov 13th, 2009, 19:27 PM

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Originally Posted by nkbapbt

I just don't like it when I am not heard.

Did someone say something......

nkbapbt · Nov 13th, 2009, 19:29 PM

Awe thank you Wendy! That means a lot to me.

I know its a little self centered but I hope Im the reason Lakai is such a fighter...It would mean some good has come out of this. I mean clearly it already has...he is here! But it would be nice to think that too.

nkbapbt · Nov 13th, 2009, 19:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Foogirl

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Originally Posted by nkbapbt

I just don't like it when I am not heard.

Did someone say something......

(thank you for the bringing some fun into this...I like you even more now jerkface!)

Foogirl · Nov 13th, 2009, 19:39 PM

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Originally Posted by nkbapbt

(thank you for the bringing some fun into this...I like you even more now jerkface!)

nkbapbt · Nov 13th, 2009, 19:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Foogirl

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Originally Posted by nkbapbt

(thank you for the bringing some fun into this...I like you even more now jerkface!)

nkbapbt · Nov 14th, 2009, 01:52 AM

Edited to stay on topic.

Foogirl · Nov 14th, 2009, 08:33 AM

You are definitely a one woman Jerry Springer show - I think I need a diagram to work it all out!

How do your mums take it when you simply tell them you are fine? I'm lucky that my mum is of the same mindset as me. "If it's nae hanging off, you'll be fine" But my mother in law can be a real drama queen at times. She always looks sceptical when I say I'm dealing with stuff, but at least she doesn't push it.

It is so hard to have to deal with stuff the way other people want you to. Don't they know they are just making it more difficult for you?

Mothers!! Who'd have 'em - and you got two!!

xMissxZoiex · Nov 14th, 2009, 16:12 PM

Omg .. i really dont know what to say babe, Its horrible that there are people out there that are so heartless especially someone thats ment to care for you.

There other options for having children adoption/surrogacy

Stay positive hun big hugs

Zoie x

DonnaBallona · Nov 14th, 2009, 16:27 PM

I dont know what to say to you sweetheart. Im so sorry for things that have happened in the past, and I hope you find the strength to overcome these obstacles in your life.

You are in my thoughts and prayers xx

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BlackBerry25 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Canada Posts: 15,180	You are an amazing woman and mother I have been wanting to post all day, and I really don't have the right words to say. Lakai is such a miracle, and if adoption is the route you guys decide to go, you will make an excellent mother for that baby as well. I think you have the best possible attitude about the whole situation and have developed a strength that most of us don't have (I know I don't) and that is what makes you such a good mother to Lakai. I really believe he is such a fighter because of you Anyways, I am here for you in any way possible! I am SOOOO sorry this has happened. It is horrible. I hate that they did this to you.

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nkbapbt Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: North Vancouver, B.C. Posts: 3,771	Awe thank you Wendy! That means a lot to me. I know its a little self centered but I hope Im the reason Lakai is such a fighter...It would mean some good has come out of this. I mean clearly it already has...he is here! But it would be nice to think that too.

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nkbapbt Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: North Vancouver, B.C. Posts: 3,771	Edited to stay on topic.

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Foogirl Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Falkirk, Scotland Posts: 4,606	You are definitely a one woman Jerry Springer show - I think I need a diagram to work it all out! How do your mums take it when you simply tell them you are fine? I'm lucky that my mum is of the same mindset as me. "If it's nae hanging off, you'll be fine" But my mother in law can be a real drama queen at times. She always looks sceptical when I say I'm dealing with stuff, but at least she doesn't push it. It is so hard to have to deal with stuff the way other people want you to. Don't they know they are just making it more difficult for you? Mothers!! Who'd have 'em - and you got two!!

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xMissxZoiex Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Nottingham, UK Posts: 5,152	Omg .. i really dont know what to say babe, Its horrible that there are people out there that are so heartless especially someone thats ment to care for you. There other options for having children adoption/surrogacy Stay positive hun big hugs Zoie x

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DonnaBallona Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Berkshire Posts: 1,890	I dont know what to say to you sweetheart. Im so sorry for things that have happened in the past, and I hope you find the strength to overcome these obstacles in your life. You are in my thoughts and prayers xx

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