Well I don't really have much that i can say to make anything better.
But this is a decision that you and OH have to make and really think about it. I honestly couldn't tell u waht I would do if I was in your situation. That is a pretty tough call to make and I think I would be devastated!!!
Maybe talk to some other specialists before you decide. See what others think and get some other input. How did the baby look in the scan? Was he growing normally? If everything looks normal maybe give yourself another week or two. Your baby could very well be OK.
But again it's your decision to make. Not the doctors or anyone else. I hope you do whats right.

good luck
