aaww thanks for your replies
yea it is quite worrying cos however much I would love to see and hold my baby I don't want him this early if he has health problems!
I went to the hospital yesterday and my cervix has shrunk to 7mm (so 5mm less in 2weeks) it has been a fairly steady shortening since they diagnosed it at 24 weeks, so maybe following the pattern I may at least make it to 34 weeks.
I was however given the course of 2 steroid shots yesterday and am going for the 2nd dose today, just incase. better to have it than to not i suppose for babys lungs. however there is controversy as to whether the benefits only lasts a week and if repeat courses turn out to be harmful and unbeneficial.
im not sure i'm just so confused right now!! but yea as you've all said keep resting and legs crossed! he has an est. fetal weight of 4lbs 10 at the moment, so he's a good weight for only 31 weeks! which is a good thing if he's coming early.
going to buy some premmie nappies just incase too!! and better start deciding on names!
I will keep everyone posted! xx