Tezzy

i think louise was lookin for a bit of reassurance Cheyanne lol!

Louise

Gotta say, that Im totally freaked out now!!!! In saying that though, I did ask.....
Cheyanne you was only being truthful- though I will now be writing down every dream I have until I finally drop lol, Cause thats how I am..... lol. Nevermind!

Imi

Louise TAKE NO NOTICE!

Things like that VERY RARLEY happen infact its like once in a blue moon hun!

Enjoy your pregnancy and carry on, your goona have a great labour and you are going to be fine sweetie!

xxx

Tezzy

awww louise please dont worry!

if something is going to go wrong AND IM IN NO WAY SAYING IT IS! then there will be nothing you can do about it hun.

youve had a great pg mostly so far.. what more could you ask for? all this worrying cannot be good for little Nicky... you need to stay calm and relaxed for his sake.

Wobbles

Don't dreams tend to mean opposite 'supposingly'! Louise I really wouldn't worry hunny blimey girl if you take note of everything in this world you should have been dead 10 times over by today & other shit .... as us all!

Your going to have a baby boy who grows into a teenage rebel and nothing that happens will come from dreams and such ... x x

Layla

if i have upset you with my pram suspersistion (sp?) then im sorry, its only an old wifes tale, i belive in the magpie rhymes too, im alwyas saluting one if i see it, im silly.

x

Amanda

Aww hun, I had a dream just before Kayleigh was born that the guy I had been seeing before Kayleigh's dad turned up. He said that she was his baby and if he couldn't have her, then no-one could. He punched me in the stomach and because of that, she was still-born.

It was a horrendous dream, particularly because I had had lots of problems and they were worried about her (the placenta wasn't complete), and it still gets to me now, but Kayleigh was fine when she was born, and still is fine (most days!)

It is natural to fret and worry, we all do that and it shows what a good parent you are going to be.

And Cheyenne - I know you were only being honest, but my mum always said that if I couldn't say anything nice, I shouldn't say anything at all.

MrsE

I don't believe in all that superstition stuff, I had my pram, cot and everything all made up in the house well before Little legs was due.
My sisters didn't get their prams until the babies were born because of superstition, like Layla.
Layla I'm sure you haven't upset anyone you were just answering the question, not saying anything mean or scary

I did have a feeling that my baby was a boy but that was it, no dreams, nothing. Think it was wishfull thinking really as I always wanted an older brother and so would like my family to begin with the older brother...daft I know.

You've had a 4d scan as well as your routine scans haven't you, don't forget that in all scans they check the baby thoroughly including the placenta and cord. If nothing has shown up by now then it won't show at all

Cx

Amanda

Sorry, I meant to say that too Layla.


My MIL bought us the travel system and kept it in her garage, she refused to give it to us. I'm not superstitious, but if it makes a person feel happier and more secure by not having baby things in the house, then that's absolutely fine. I could have insisted that she gave us the pram, as I wanted it, but I didn't. It gave her piece of mind to think she was protecting us.

Louise

First of all, Layla, you havent upset me at all lol. Im like you, I dont believe in putting furniture in the house until baby is born!
I should have picked up my new moses basket yesterday but I couldnt do it, I dont want it in my room or my house until baby is here, and same with the pram!
Clothes I can just about allow, and nappies, bottles etc: but anything else is staying out of the way.
MrsE, I wish I could be more like you and have my things in my house, ready and waiting for baby, but it's not that simple for us supersticious women... Im with Layla on the magpie thing too, I cringe whenever I just see one, infact, it scares me! I dont solute them though, I stick two fingers up or try to find the nearest stone to throw at it lol.

Amanda, I had a simular dream to yours; I dreamt that my baby was taken away from me and I wasnt allowed anywhere near him. I never ended up taking him home!!


It's like one of those dreams where you're running but you're not going anywhere fast- I was trying to get my baby from the hospital but no matter what I did, in my dream I couldnt get within inches near to him.

Everything is gettin so close now, and at this stage of pregnancy I thought I may have calmed down, but instead it got worse. Instead of stressing about miscarriage, or birth defects, Im worrying about stillbirth now. I just want Nicky out of there where I can see that he's safe and well... they say the womb is the safest place, but I beg to differ on that one.

I bet all you lovely ladies are really enjoying your pregnancies aint ya? I can tell you are wobs you're so excited. I just wish that I could have been excited, but since I found out, all I have been is scared to death!
I keep telling myself as the days go by, just one more week- just get me to my next midwife visit and i'm ok. Im like this EVERY SINGLE DAY! No wonder the hospitals are concerned.