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Aug 21st, 2008, 22:24 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Fuming
I am so angry.
Some will remember me saying I had two mates who were pregnant at the same time. One deilvered a few days ago.
The other delivered this morning at 5am.
That's not what I'm fuming about.
I'm fuming that she had two men on the ago when she concieved. One was my brother. And the only thing he asked was that he could be at the hospital when she was in labour, so he could hold his possible son shortly after he was born.
He didn't find out until 7ish tonight she'd even had him.
Niether did any of her family know.
I'm fuming that she couldn't even grant him that one thing. If it's his son hes missed out on the first few precious moments with him.
Sorry for rant. And probably no one cares, but I had to get it out. |
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Aug 21st, 2008, 22:27 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Id be fuming too. I would hate for any man to miss that moment when there son is born. I know she was in labour but you'd think she would be more considerate  xXx |
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Aug 21st, 2008, 22:29 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | You know what I get ticked about? There are actually men out there who do want something to do with their child, irregardless if they are in a relationship with that person or not. And to withhold the information that their child has been born is one horrible thing to do.  |
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Aug 21st, 2008, 22:30 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | I care hunny xx And i agree. I really feel for your brother. I am not surprised you angry. I hope she allows your brother to bond with his possible son ASAP!!! |
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Aug 21st, 2008, 22:31 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | That does seem out of order, especially as your brother had asked beforehand, and also considering the fact that she was seeing 2 blokes at the same time. But it's nice to see that your brother clearly takes his (possible) responsibilities seriously. It's a shame he had to wait so long to find out about the birth.
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Originally Posted by leeanne  You know what I get ticked about? There are actually men out there who do want something to do with their child, irregardless if they are in a relationship with that person or not. And to withhold the information that their child has been born is one horrible thing to do. | Well that's what my brother wants. He doesn't want to be in a relationship with her because he can't trust her, but if it's his son, he wants to provide and be a part of his life. And he just missed out one of the biggest events. |
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Aug 21st, 2008, 22:34 PM
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Originally Posted by BeckyBoo Quote:
Originally Posted by leeanne You know what I get ticked about? There are actually men out there who do want something to do with their child, irregardless if they are in a relationship with that person or not. And to withhold the information that their child has been born is one horrible thing to do. | Well that's what my brother wants. He doesn't want to be in a relationship with her because he can't trust her, but if it's his son, he wants to provide and be a part of his life. And he just missed out one of the biggest events. | Terribly sad!
My OH and I broke up a month prior to my second being born and were separated up to 4 months after.
He wanted a few things. One being that he could be at the delivery. How could I deny that? As much as I was so mad at him and hated him, there was no way I could take his wish away. I find that very heartless. |
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Yeah well, just shows that some people are heartless. I'll wash my hands of her if she doesn't do the right thing. |
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Originally Posted by BeckyBoo Yeah well, just shows that some people are heartless. I'll wash my hands of her if she doesn't do the right thing. | I would too hon! Honestly don't blame you for your rant and anger!
Some people like to burn bridges! |
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Aug 21st, 2008, 22:37 PM
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Originally Posted by BeckyBoo Yeah well, just shows that some people are heartless. I'll wash my hands of her if she doesn't do the right thing. | I was going to say....As a woman, mother and friend i would be having words with her ....if i was youx....lol......blood is thicker than water and all that Xx |
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