emma_27

Oh dear!! Id be really gutted if my mil tried that one its not fair to put it on you when your about to have a baby. Hope shes not to much of a pain for you and like you said if you dont want to have to be at home stay in hospital for another night.

sam's mum

Good luck...you are far, far too nice! You should think of yourself and put your foot down! It's lovely that she wants to be involved but why not visit once your baby is here and your new family is settled back at home?! Hope everything goes well for you...don't let her stress you out! x

Mrs-N

thanks for all your and all.

the only thing was she was gonna come down on thursday or friday anyway.

do you think ill have baby by sunday?
i was just reading lizziepots thread about her induction and she went in on monday and its now wednesday and still not had baby.

im gonna have an early night tonight so i wont need to see her for too long,then i need to call hospital at 8.30 in the morning to see what time they want me in,hopefully in the morning but if not until the afternoon i might suggest me and hubby do something for the day as a couple so i wont need to see her.

while im in hospital she can do the housework and when im outof hospital she can keep the house clean and do the cooking.

but i might stay in hospital for an extra night so me and hubby can get used to having a baby before we come home.

she was gonna come while i was in hospital anyway so im hoping it wont cause to much of an effect coz ill be going into hospital tomorrow.

Sarah88

I really hope that the induction works for you! And I hope she keeps her big nose out of your way and lets u guys be a family.

dizzle

Hopefully your induction will go a lot quicker (unless you don't want it to of course).

I'd leave her lists of jobs to do while you're away. If you have to have her there then she might as well make herself useful cooking, cleaning, ironing etc.

Only thing I'd say about staying in longer is that my sisters found it really hard to sleep on the postnatal ward as one baby would set another off and there was crying all night. Do you know how long you get your own room for?

Def get an early night tonight and lots and lots of luck for tomorrow

Mrs-N

after half an hour or so after the birth you are then taken to the postnatal ward.

im wanting the labour to go as smooth and quick as possible.

stefb

awwww good luck hun

~KACI~

aw hun i feel your pain!! lol My MIL insisted on comin down a couple of days after both my LO's were born, but she didn't just bring her self she brought her 3 young kids aswell!! They all stayed in my 2 bed house! I used to say the baby needed feeding and disappear upstairs, where i watched tele and had a mummy cuddle with my baby, hopefully she'll help out and won't intrude too much x x

Mrs-N

thats a good idea i could just disappear into the bedroom