thelilbump

Aww

I think u wanna get yourself some pinapple (supoposed to help bring on labour) and some fab ice cream in a HUGE bowl. Run a warm bath with lotsa bubbles, somat relaxin like lavender/ camomile, pick ya favourite relaxin cd (on repeat) tell everyone you need a bit of relaxation and to not disturb you (politley of course). Ask your OH if he'll change your beddin coz theres nothin like clean sheeets after a bath. Only get out the bath once your bowl is empty and your skin is looking like an old ladies. Use your favourite moisturiser and other such like products get in ya fav pjs and sleep!!

Infact i'm half temptes to do that myself.....lol

Ann-Marie

ooooooh... everytime I hear another story about your inlaws it makes me really mad !!!!!!!!

Tell them to just go home !! You can't be any more rude than they are being by imposing on you like this !!

Mrs-N

they wont go home just incase baby comes when they get baack to theirs.

ive been in the bedroom most of the day,just had a shower and now me and hubby are gonna relax in bed together.

am i a bad mommie to be if i dont want this baby to come.

will i be able to bond and love this baby? x x

Munchkin

Oh Mrs N I really feel for you. You know what you need is to go and get yourself pampered - go and have your nails done, have a pedicure and a facial. Will give you a break from the out laws and also help you to relax a bit. And you know what, once you have it booked, baby will probably come just before you head out to spite you!

You need some

Carolyn

you really need to tell oh to tell them to bog off!!! in a polite way of course. they are being quite selfish if you want my opinion. it's not what they want and need at the moment, it's all about you and the baby. tell him to get rid of them, they are making you way too anxious chick, it's not doing you any good. show him this thread, and others if necessary and get him to tell them politley to leave for now... big hugs...( youwill be a good mum and you will bond chick, don't worry.)

EFM

hmmmm hate to pour cold water on things but I think my baby came 4 weeks early because I was stressed, this can't be proven but only thing I can put my finger on. Maybe your in laws will have done you a favor if your LO comes before Tuesday lol

And you'll love your little one like you've never loved before, It's a great feeling the minute she's lifted into your arms, undescribable and amazing....very emotional to.

Hang in there x

BeckyBoo

I think you're getting yourself upset hunnie.

When your baby arrives, no one else in the world will matter, trust me. And perhaps you'll need to be stern with them. "I don't want to be rude, or impolite, BUT I NEED SOME SPACE" . Also you can stay in hospital for a couple of days, so you get all evening with your little one when they get thrown out!!

Mrs-N

i feel much better today,i got a good night sleep and i think my massage helped.

i didnt fancy staying in hospital for too long but i might well do.
they only get to visit hospital for an hour in the afternoon and an hour in the evening.

Vicky2806

You must have the patience of a saint!! I would never allow people staying over when am that close to having the baby. When I had my first baby and had a really difficult birth, within half an hour of walkin in the house all of oh family had decended an were in an out of my fridge making butties, drinks etc.. while I was a wreck!! I am sure it contributed to me bein a bit depressed an not bondin with the baby - so this time I have told them in no uncertain terms they are not to visit for at least a week!!!! You have got to look out for yourself and the baby hunny!!

Hope your feelin a bit better - if I were you id just stay in my bedroom with the tv an a book an say you were resting xxx

hsollis

Take it easy and just have hubby take you to your dad's. Sounds like it's peaceful there. You'll probably still worry but at least you can worry in peace

Good luck and put your feet up!