Still undecided. We have ruled out Oscar now as we both think it sounds more like a goldfish, so its between Elijah and Jude, but I have issues with both, so Im not 100% on either. I am still trying to get OH to change his mind on the name Caleb cause its my fav name of all time, but I think the baby name book will be coming out again soon.
I know how you feel about the family thing, mine dont exactly old back on their opinons. Last time when we had Lola as the planned name for a girl, my mum said she would write me out of her will and refuse to call the child that. And I dont think she was joking, when Ihad a pet rat once, she didnt like the name Igave it, so she gave it a different name
