I'm going mad! I am in SO much pain and discomfort, I have a completly unsympathetic OH and I spent almost an hour crying last night

I keep getting terrible pains in my back like something is about to explode out of it. Bubs is moving so much and it's so painful

My OH is doing my head in with his total lack of sympathy for anyone but himself expecting me to do all the housework because he's in work all day and therefore making me feel bad that I can't do it

Last night I lay awake crying because I was so uncomfy and in so much pain and it made me think how the hell am I going to cope with labour if I can even cope with this? (which my OH has said! Grr) Speaking of which, he woke up while I was crying and said " Are you crying?" and I said "no." whilst sniffing very obviously and he put his arm on my shoulder... and fell back asleep!

She's due tomorrow and I know she's not going to make an appearence and I just want to scream! OH is now working late so I have no one to whinge to.

AAAAAAAARRRRGGGGGHH!!

Aww huni, didn't want to read and run. Sending you big i hope you feel better soon and LO makes a speedy appearance.

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awww i really feel for you! my OH just keeps telling me to hurry up go in to labor! (like if there was somthing i could do to hurry things up i wouldnt be doing it!!!!! ) he seems to have had the xbox control attached to his hand for the last two days and everytime i make the smallest wimmper in pain i get "are u ok?" .... "no!" "well i cant do anything about it!!!" men eyy! anyway hopfully it'll all be over soon we can rest and they can run around after us and LO whatcha think!

Flamin hope so!

awww hon, im sure u will be able to cope it labour. im so sorry your feeling like this, hope your LO comes soon for you

my hubby is shocking for asking if i'm ok then falling straight back asleep like he wasn't actually that interested!!

Plus i have cricket to contend with my god i thought the euros where enough distraction for him but seems to have found something else. Wouldn't suprise me if he delayed us going to the hospital to watch the scores or finish his sleep!

Chin up hun not long and you can always moan at us xxx

Luckily my OH isn't a dedicated sports fan!

sending you lots of

i am sorry your OH isn't very sympathetic - i do think it is a man thing. they probably don't know what to do (or how to do with you in pain). just leave the housework - it doesn't need to be done!

I hope it happens for you soon....



Christine
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well i finally got permission to go into labour by my OH today, as the next two weeks are clear in his competative sports calander!!

Sorry you are in so much pain, but perhaps it is a real sign things are happening!! I dont think you are going to be late at all. Not with the back pain!