jenny873

last thursdaymy friends sister inlaw lost her baby at 8 months because she didnt go to the hospital over bad pains, and then on friday her cousin lost a baby at 5 months becuase her waters went and she took her time doing anything about it! RACHELLL U DIV GO THE OZZY! RING CARMEL! x

Emmea12uk

i passed the message on, but she is in bed already and isnt budging! She cant get hold of MW and has been trying since 20:30, and sent her a text. She just refuses to call the hospital. She wants to wait for her MW, i think because she thinks she will tell her it is all ok and that she can go to her exam. She is one scared puppy and i think i am just frightening her now.

Emmea12uk

passed that one on too. i am so worried

jenny873

tar! if i pm u my number will u text her it 4 me tell her ill text carmel now

rafwife

Why is she putting her baby's life at risk??

She needs to call the labour ward now, and not her midwife! Anyone know her in RL that can contact her parents?

jenny873

i know her but i think its a little bit patronising to ring her mum LOL

rafwife

Do you? If you think she needs urgent medical attention and isn't getting it because she is either scared or doesn't want to?

You know her though, whereas we don't.

Emmea12uk

there is no one. She is very very frightened. She has been through so much and been treated badly by her hospital. The longer she is waiting the more the flight reflex is kicking in... she isnt having contractions however, which is good at least.

She will come to her senses, i know she will. I just hope it is on time, as her LO's lungs might not be ready yet and infection is a serious risk for her. Her MW can go round there and sort her out at least. but she did say she cant get hold of her. Hope jenny has more luck.

1sttimemom

I agree...it's her body and baby. It's up to her to make the right choice here....I just hope she does it.

Emmea12uk

Jenny - i think i fyou know her mum you should ring her in the morning and stop her going to that exam.