Thanks for you advise girls my mum has had the hol booked since december (before i found out i was pg) and has already paid full for it so she cant postpone it and i wudnt expect her to cancel it.
i am just really scared that she wont be here when i go into labour.. i have my OH with me but it aint the same alls i will want is my mum (i am a mummies girl lol)
this aint for convienience it is because i no i will be alot more stressed and paniky if my mum aint there

nehow i do feel really selfish as i am puttin myself first... i am even considering an elective c-section but my OH said he wouldnt cum with me so he would be missing out on his child be born (hes very squimish)
thanks any way girls
