charlottecco2

i know how you feel about your OH grrrr men xx

demonmadcat

i'm quite glad it's just me after reading this!!

Scuba

Awww hunny men can be such idiots! The leaving everything in a mess and buggering off or doing something else (with mine its going for a run or doing a workout usually grrrr) I seriously just think that men don't look at things like we do... My OH always says to me when I moan about the mess he's left to just leave it and he'll sort it all out once he's done whatever he's doing, but I can't sit there and know that things need doing, its impossible to relax!
So now I say to him after dinner for example 'come on lets do the washing up' and one of us will wash and the other dry.
He's a nightmare for leaving dirty clothes laying on floor by the bed when its hardly difficult to put it in the laundry basket is it??!

Sometimes we have cracking rows about it but other times I just can't be bothered, but I do feel like a warped record sometimes, seems like all I do is nag at him but if only he'd get on and do things I wouldn't have to GRRRR!!

I know its little consolation but I do think things will get easier once our hormones settle down - but you're def not unreasonable wanting him to pull his weight!

Big hugs xx

poppy

Grrrr! Men just seem to have different priorities, don't they? They don't 'see what the big deal is' etc etc and leave things for ages and if they do get around to doing something, it is usually not done properly and you have to redo it.

Like the others, I suggest that you put your feet up (try to ignore the washing etc), have a nice cup of tea and some choccie biccies, put a film on and relax - you are 41 weeks pregnant! When your OH and boys come home refuse point blank to move until they clear up and if they ask what is for dinner, reply, 'I don't know...whatever you are cooking.' They (your OH and the boys) need to be reminded that you are heavily pregnant, a week past your due date and are finding it hard to do all the housework and that they have to do their share.

Good luck!

xxx