sex in pregnancy

hjayne_20 · May 6th, 2008, 13:10 PM

Hi

i know this may seem abit too personal but i really need some advice!!!

im 31 weeks pregnant and i havnt been able to have sex with my partner for over 2 weeks! im just NEVER feeling in the mood and i feel that my partner my take it the wrong way if i dont give him anything!

please help as im unsure of how 2 go about this!

thanks x

AquaDementia · May 6th, 2008, 13:16 PM

I think the last time I had sex in pregnancy was in the second trimester.
Boo hoo.

mBLACK · May 6th, 2008, 13:18 PM

I'm useless for advice honey, but don't feel like you're obliged to have sex with him if you're not feeling up to it. I did it a couple of times while pregnant and now that my belly's bigger it just doesn't feel right, and plus my libido is nonexistant. The only time I'm having sex and actually WANTING it is in my dreams.

Don't force yourself to do anything you aren't comfortable with, men have hands they can put them to good use!

hjayne_20 · May 6th, 2008, 13:22 PM

lol

i know! maybe if i show him these messages he may get the hint that its not just me!

thanks x

tinytoes · May 6th, 2008, 13:30 PM

YOu shouldnt feel obliged - you're pregnant!!!!

I think we've managed it a handful of times during this pregnancy...maybe even just 3 or 4 times!!! hahah. We're lazy

Right now we're closer than ever though - w're sharing this magical experience and we kiss and cuddle all day long (except when we're at work!!!). It doesnt have to be about sex.

Linzi · May 6th, 2008, 13:32 PM

You shouldn't feel obliged to do it. We don't anymore really but thats only because it blimmin hurts!

Im sure your OH will understand.

xxx

PitBullMommy · May 6th, 2008, 14:11 PM

Poo to sex. I'm sure OH will understand

cupcake · May 6th, 2008, 14:28 PM

agree with the others but i know how u feel, having sex is so awkward in the third tri just be honest with him and tell him how u feel. try and be as understanding as you can and im sure hell meet you half way. who knows that might put u in the mood

**Vickie** · May 6th, 2008, 14:36 PM

Nothing going on over here either, my hips have been very sore the last week or so--doesn't make you want to have sex. Luckily Stan's very understanding about it

Deise · May 6th, 2008, 14:41 PM

I stopped having sex about two weeks ago...and not planning on doing it anytime soon either.

May 6th, 2008, 13:10 PM	#1
hjayne_20 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 43	sex in pregnancy Hi i know this may seem abit too personal but i really need some advice!!! im 31 weeks pregnant and i havnt been able to have sex with my partner for over 2 weeks! im just NEVER feeling in the mood and i feel that my partner my take it the wrong way if i dont give him anything! please help as im unsure of how 2 go about this! thanks x

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May 6th, 2008, 13:16 PM	#2
AquaDementia Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: London, Ontario, Canada Posts: 3,793	I think the last time I had sex in pregnancy was in the second trimester. Boo hoo.

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May 6th, 2008, 13:18 PM	#3
mBLACK Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Manitoba Posts: 2,350	I'm useless for advice honey, but don't feel like you're obliged to have sex with him if you're not feeling up to it. I did it a couple of times while pregnant and now that my belly's bigger it just doesn't feel right, and plus my libido is nonexistant. The only time I'm having sex and actually WANTING it is in my dreams. Don't force yourself to do anything you aren't comfortable with, men have hands they can put them to good use!

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May 6th, 2008, 13:22 PM	#4
hjayne_20 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 43	lol i know! maybe if i show him these messages he may get the hint that its not just me! thanks x

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tinytoes Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: France Posts: 2,912	YOu shouldnt feel obliged - you're pregnant!!!! I think we've managed it a handful of times during this pregnancy...maybe even just 3 or 4 times!!! hahah. We're lazy Right now we're closer than ever though - w're sharing this magical experience and we kiss and cuddle all day long (except when we're at work!!!). It doesnt have to be about sex.

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May 6th, 2008, 13:32 PM	#6
Linzi Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Leeds UK Posts: 15,769	You shouldn't feel obliged to do it. We don't anymore really but thats only because it blimmin hurts! Im sure your OH will understand. xxx

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May 6th, 2008, 14:11 PM	#7
PitBullMommy Other BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Norwich, CT Posts: 3,332	Poo to sex. I'm sure OH will understand

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May 6th, 2008, 14:28 PM	#8
cupcake Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: middle east Posts: 4,375	agree with the others but i know how u feel, having sex is so awkward in the third tri just be honest with him and tell him how u feel. try and be as understanding as you can and im sure hell meet you half way. who knows that might put u in the mood

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May 6th, 2008, 14:36 PM	#9
Vickie Mum (Mom) Administrator Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Toronto, ON Posts: 75,703	Nothing going on over here either, my hips have been very sore the last week or so--doesn't make you want to have sex. Luckily Stan's very understanding about it

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May 6th, 2008, 14:41 PM	#10
Deise Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: FLA Posts: 1,419	I stopped having sex about two weeks ago...and not planning on doing it anytime soon either.

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