Anyone else's OH make them feel fat? - Page 4

nikkibr · Mar 17th, 2010, 15:23 PM

thanks ladies! i like the ideas of coming back at him about something he is insecure about! so think i will be trying that one soon...tonights comment was "oi tubby" when trying to get my attention!!! i'm feeling more positive about it now and next time he does say something that hurts me he won't know whats hit him!!! xx

kristen77 · Mar 17th, 2010, 15:27 PM

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Originally Posted by nikkibr

thanks ladies! i like the ideas of coming back at him about something he is insecure about! so think i will be trying that one soon...tonights comment was "oi tubby" when trying to get my attention!!! i'm feeling more positive about it now and next time he does say something that hurts me he won't know whats hit him!!! xx

WHOOP! Excellent, go for it!! Love your avatar BTW - brill pic!

mommy-in-june · Mar 17th, 2010, 21:18 PM

Aww hun! Sorry you have to deal with this!

No offense, but he's acting like an immature disrespectful ass. I can't imagine my fiance talking to me like that. I wouldn't argue, or try to justify my behavior- I would just completely shut down and stop talking to him until he could treat me with respect. Or maybe every time he says something demeaning, you can say "shut the hell up" really mean and then tell him you're "just joking"... See how he likes it!

nikkibr · Mar 18th, 2010, 05:07 AM

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Originally Posted by kristen77

WHOOP! Excellent, go for it!! Love your avatar BTW - brill pic!

thanks hunni!! she does look like a little cutie- can't wait to meet her! xx

sophxx · Mar 18th, 2010, 05:39 AM

ive put on about a stone and half i was very very thin before and my oh thinks i look lovely! sometimes he jokes about food because hes not used to me eating alot as i was ill before being pregnant but he says he doesnt want me to loose the weight!

if he was was making fun of me i wouldnt speak to him id be so mad! x

Mar 17th, 2010, 15:23 PM	#31
nikkibr Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Warwickshire Posts: 524	thanks ladies! i like the ideas of coming back at him about something he is insecure about! so think i will be trying that one soon...tonights comment was "oi tubby" when trying to get my attention!!! i'm feeling more positive about it now and next time he does say something that hurts me he won't know whats hit him!!! xx

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Mar 17th, 2010, 21:18 PM	#33
mommy-in-june Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Tennessee Posts: 1,171	Aww hun! Sorry you have to deal with this! No offense, but he's acting like an immature disrespectful ass. I can't imagine my fiance talking to me like that. I wouldn't argue, or try to justify my behavior- I would just completely shut down and stop talking to him until he could treat me with respect. Or maybe every time he says something demeaning, you can say "shut the hell up" really mean and then tell him you're "just joking"... See how he likes it!

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Mar 18th, 2010, 05:39 AM	#35
sophxx Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 6,504	ive put on about a stone and half i was very very thin before and my oh thinks i look lovely! sometimes he jokes about food because hes not used to me eating alot as i was ill before being pregnant but he says he doesnt want me to loose the weight! if he was was making fun of me i wouldnt speak to him id be so mad! x

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