I like sex as much as the next hormonal pregnant woman but the last couple of times I've been in pain afterwards. It doesn't hurt at the time, only when I go for a wee after, it stings so much it knocks me sick and then I end up walking round looking and feeling like I've just given birth to an elephant. Is this normal? Anyone else get it?

i have to say i have kind of had the sex drive of a dead donkey so im not able to say lol

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I always get cramps or BH after sex and feel a bit sore but I haven't had trouble with peeing really afterwards. I don't know what would cause it so maybe it would be worth speaking to your midwife or doctor about it.

Was it not you who said you leaked?? I leaked after sex and they think it was becaused the sex had caused me to rupture a little and told me not to do it any more!

It id normal to get BH after sex tho.

Yeah it was me lol never got BH after sex and I haven't leaked after sex either. I don't know what it is =/ will ask midwife

Dead donkey?!!! I think I can join that club too! Have no desire for sexytime at all!

Can't really help you there. I can't remember the last time I had sex, but I got really bad cramps on my right side then they shot across my belly. I've been scared to try again since. I have moments when I want to, just use other methods instead (sorry if TMI).

The only time I get that stinging sensation is if me and hubby haven't done it for awhile, I think all that friction has something to do with it (make sure you lubricate really well). I'm sorry, this a very personal subject and what I just said made me giggle cause I would never say that to someone's face.

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