YummyMummy

Hey every one

i need some advice...
me and mummy get on very well but im back with my babys dad now and he wants us all under one roof when babys born
i have just gotten a call and been offered a

NEWLY REFURBISHED 2 BED FLAT (ONE DOUBLE AND ONE SINGLE)LOCATED 10 MINUTES FROM MY MUM, OFFERED LARGE SEPERATE INTEGRATED KITCHEN, BRIGHT RECEPTION RECEPTION, FULLY FURNISHED & PARKING.

a part of me wants to go
another part of me wants to go

i dont know weather i should view the property and then if i like it take it or if i should wait for my mum...

do u think getting my own place is the right thing to do even though i know me looking is upsetting my mum.

tinytoes

upsetting your mum isnt the main thing here - we all fly the nest at some point...sad as it may be.

Will you and OH be staying together? Permenantly? It makes sense for you to live together in my book but dont rush it if you're not 100% certain. ...there would be other flats...but at least this is close to your Mum if you do go - so its not like she wont see you and baby.

anita665

Even if you are very close to your mum, you have a baby on the way & your own family to create so there comes a point where you have to move on. She will understand that. It's not like it's very far away from her either.

toriaaaaTRASH

It's your life, not hers.

Linzi

I think you should definately go and have a look at it Only thing is that if you're having problems with your OH then consider it a bit more... my friend is in a situation where she's got 8 months left on her tenancy with her boyfriend and she wants to split up with him. Very difficult.

Good luck! Dont worry about your mum, Im sure she'll be happy for you

xxx

YummyMummy

me n oh will be staying together permenantly, hes willing to pay the rent as hes working and im not.

KarenLV

Yes,I would say go for it. Can't be a mummy's little girl forever. Especially since your going to be a mom now. Time to be an adult.

Emmea12uk

You need to go with your heart - but you have to think of your family's future. if you intend to stay with your Oh and bring your baby up together, now is really the time to put those foundations down. At least you are close to your mother.