Pregnancy - Third Trimester

JennyLynn512 · Apr 24th, 2008, 17:57 PM

That decision is totally up to you and your husband. I am having my husband, my mom, and mother in law in the room with me. My mother in law is an OB Nurse and I feel cormfortable with her there. Plus this is the first grandchild on my side, so I really want my Mom apart of it. My husband and I don't mind at all...just no more than those people. When my sister in law's husband's sister (haha) gave birth to her baby, there were 15 people in the room. Now that...is INSANE!

alyxzandra · Apr 26th, 2008, 10:29 AM

My fiance's mother is going to be at the birth. I actually asked for her to be there. But, I am very comfortable with her and we get along well. I no longer speak to my mother, so she will not be there.

alyxzandra · Apr 26th, 2008, 10:32 AM

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Originally Posted by sonny

NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO! There is no way i would have MIL there. We dont get on and havn't spoken in about 10 months (and she lives accross the road!) when my BF gave her a scan picture and told her our news (he still gets on with her) she said "i cannot be happy or excited for you"
The next day she shoved the scan picture through our letterbox! PURE EVIL! and all because myself and her dont get on. BF is now saying she wants to see the baby when its born but no way am i letting that happen at all after the nastiness of her actions.......it was her choice and made her feelings clear!
Is it me? or would everyone else do the same?

I do not blame you one bit. She rejected the baby in so many different ways and now she wants to backtrack? That is so not on!

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