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Shocklee16 · Feb 22nd, 2010, 22:54 PM

Wow im so glad I have found this thread. Me and my FOB have been seperated for 2 months now and I still have about 7 weeks left til my LO is here. He is apparently seeing some other girl and we hardly talk...but he still comes too my appts and everything. I just hope he comes back too me when the baby is here. Its soooo hard how some guys treat us girls...

glitterbomb · Feb 23rd, 2010, 05:32 AM

Mine left me when I was around 22 or 24, due to him not wanting his social life ruined.

Windmills · Feb 23rd, 2010, 05:33 AM

My OH was awful for a while. Without going into too much detail, he ended up going to jail in December- he got 12 weeks but was released on an appeal after 10 days.
I just told him we were over, we split up for a couple of weeks, and then he came to me and begged me to take him back- I put loads and loads of conditions on our relationship, and said I won't live with him or let the baby stay with him until he's proved he can be an adult.
It's only been 2 months, but he's been amazing so far. Maybe you need to do something similar?

sophieee18 · Feb 23rd, 2010, 05:54 AM

My FOB was very supportive thoughout my pregnancy, but when I reached 30 weeks things started goigng wrong between us. It started with arguements, and then he met someone else and cheated on me. He now choose that girl over me and his baby and we have no contact what so ever. He decided to choose a cheap slapper over his son! But it's his loss. It is very hard, but when you see your beautiful baby for the first time you will know that baby is all you need to make you happy.

I hope things work out for you xxx

EmziixBo0o · Feb 23rd, 2010, 17:41 PM

thank you so much im so glad i am not allown!

its horrible, maybe i do need to break up with him and not bother with him
but im not one for giving up no matter how much it hurts

Shocklee16 · Feb 24th, 2010, 12:17 PM

I feel the same way. Me and my boyfriend have been broken up now for 2 months...and it sucks. But if he was too come back I would probably take him back...even though this is the second time he has done this kinda thing too me. But idk. Im wishing you luck, we all need it.

Feb 22nd, 2010, 22:54 PM	#11
Shocklee16 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 130	Wow im so glad I have found this thread. Me and my FOB have been seperated for 2 months now and I still have about 7 weeks left til my LO is here. He is apparently seeing some other girl and we hardly talk...but he still comes too my appts and everything. I just hope he comes back too me when the baby is here. Its soooo hard how some guys treat us girls...

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Feb 23rd, 2010, 05:32 AM	#12
glitterbomb Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Ohio Posts: 526	Mine left me when I was around 22 or 24, due to him not wanting his social life ruined.

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Feb 23rd, 2010, 05:33 AM	#13
Windmills Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 8,417	My OH was awful for a while. Without going into too much detail, he ended up going to jail in December- he got 12 weeks but was released on an appeal after 10 days. I just told him we were over, we split up for a couple of weeks, and then he came to me and begged me to take him back- I put loads and loads of conditions on our relationship, and said I won't live with him or let the baby stay with him until he's proved he can be an adult. It's only been 2 months, but he's been amazing so far. Maybe you need to do something similar?

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Feb 23rd, 2010, 05:54 AM	#14
sophieee18 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Kent, UK Posts: 856	My FOB was very supportive thoughout my pregnancy, but when I reached 30 weeks things started goigng wrong between us. It started with arguements, and then he met someone else and cheated on me. He now choose that girl over me and his baby and we have no contact what so ever. He decided to choose a cheap slapper over his son! But it's his loss. It is very hard, but when you see your beautiful baby for the first time you will know that baby is all you need to make you happy. I hope things work out for you xxx

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Feb 23rd, 2010, 17:41 PM	#15
EmziixBo0o Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Birmingham Posts: 2,926	thank you so much im so glad i am not allown! its horrible, maybe i do need to break up with him and not bother with him but im not one for giving up no matter how much it hurts

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Feb 24th, 2010, 12:17 PM	#16
Shocklee16 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 130	I feel the same way. Me and my boyfriend have been broken up now for 2 months...and it sucks. But if he was too come back I would probably take him back...even though this is the second time he has done this kinda thing too me. But idk. Im wishing you luck, we all need it.

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