bexy_22

ok so the thing is, obviously through my pregnancy my sex drive has been up and down and all sorts and at one point it was really high but my oh wouldnt get the hint. Then he did and it was all good for a while but now he keeps asking me to come onto him but I keep changing the subject because to be honest, I'm getting fatter by the day and have missy kicking me and I dunno, I just dont feel very sexy. It's ok when he initiates it but its hard to try and turn someone on when you don't feel sexy yourself. I tried telling him and he just says things like 'don't be silly, your beautiful' but it's not that simple but then I just feel really bad lol am i being stupid?

Samantha675

The most seduction my DH gets is 'wanna do it?' seriously, I may be up for it, but can't be bothered with much more than that.

Abbys_Mummy

oh yer my partner gets next to no seduction when i want it i tell him to get in the bedroom he gets the picture

Ratty

I hear you loud and clear. I also just don't feel sexy at all !!! When we do attempt anything, I just feel like a fat blob that can't do anything which makes me feel even less sexy.

coz

ive not had a very high sex through the whole of my pregnancy allthough wev been having about weekly but i just feel so tired and dont feel sexy at all xxx

Sparky0207

My sex drive has vanished since ive been pregnant which is unusual for me! I know what you mean though, I dont feel sexy at all and its really hard trying to pretend you really want it when its the last thing on your mind!

xxx

Emmea12uk

i am dreading when my oh comes home when I have only 4 weeks to go. When i last saw him a month ago he was sex mad and I went along with it. but he is going to come home not having had sex for three months and expect me to be ok - i really dont know if i will be!!

Last time, when i was under 24 weeks, everytime we did it i had contractions

elliebaby

First tri I went right off it which was a big shock for my OH considering up til then, we had been trying hard to conceive and doing it at every available opportunity!!

2nd tri my libido went through the roof and now, in 3rd tri, it is still pretty high but I just feel so clumsy whenever we do it! Only certain positions are really comfy and they tend to be the less dignified ones, if you know what I mean! Lets just say, I'm really starting to feel like a doggy! (TMI?)

The thing I find hardest is not being able to get comfy for a good snogging session! Face to face the belly is ALWAYS in the way!!

Emmea12uk

I miss face to face so much! I hated it before - it was so boring. But now I miss the intimacy of being able to see his face and have a good snuggle.

A good snuggle has to be with him lying behind me now, which isnt the same

Ratty

I love when he lies behind me for a snuggle, but it always makes him extremely horny and all I want to do is snuggle.

ellieBaby, your doggy statement really made me laugh. Its definitely the easiest at the moment, but def not the most intimate / glamourous.