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Apr 17th, 2008, 13:00 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | I didn't want my OH there either but everyone told me I have to and I've decided not to think about it too much or it'll stress me out lol |
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Apr 17th, 2008, 13:03 PM
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| Wow, I'm amazed you're even considering letting her in! I don't want anyone there apart from my OH, not even my mum.
Just wait til you're having a really strong contraction, then call her. I'm sure you won't mince your words then!! |
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Apr 17th, 2008, 13:04 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: |  I can see it now. "I don't need you and your false information!!!" LOL. Oh dear, that wouldn't be good. |
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Apr 17th, 2008, 13:06 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | How come you didnt want your OH there?
Im having mum and OH there, mum for the brains and mature support, cos oh would be useless, he will just try to keep me laughing with stupid comments that i can see me going crazy at when im in pain. |
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I don't know, with these hormones sometimes I just don't feel comfortable about anyone being there. I know I'll be fine at the time but I guess I just don't know what to expect lol |
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Apr 17th, 2008, 13:11 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | True, i felt very uncomfortable at first even felt stupid sucking on the gas and air at first, but trust me once the ball is rolling you wont care. |
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Apr 17th, 2008, 14:01 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Of course you're allowed to change your mind! My hospital asks who you want there and anyone else gets kicked out. I am only having DH and my Mom. I do NOT want any visitors until she's at LEAST 24 hours old and I want no one at my house for at least 3-4 days after we come back. Just gotta be firm with them. |
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | You can always get the midwife to run interference. At my friends birth, we got the midwives to kick her family and OH out- even out of the waiting room- because they were just stressing her out. They were able to explain things to everyone so well that no one was offended. |
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I'd feel so bad kicking my OH out.. It's his baby too and all..  |
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Apr 17th, 2008, 14:33 PM
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Originally Posted by toriaaaaTRASH  I'd feel so bad kicking my OH out.. It's his baby too and all.. | I think my friend felt a little bad too, but he just wasn't helpful AT ALL and she was in tears. He's a complete moron. I'm sure your OH will not be anything like him. Just know the staff will be on your side, not your friend's side when it comes to your labour! |
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