In answer to some of the questions in here...
All our children came with us over here. We did wonder if it would be easier to leave them behind, but figured we'd miss them too much. It's just our parents, siblings and various aunts/uncles/cousins who are in Spain (who I was missing).
That photo was taken for an anniversary present, so I'll see if I can find any better ones to post. We didn't bring that many photos over with us, since it we sort of rush packed everything to come over.
I've asked if he would give lessons to other dads, but he said he would only do it if he got £1 million!!!! I guess it's just his Italian/Spanish background (very family orientated)
Oh and as for last night, all I can say was... the

was amazing and really gentle. I wasn't sure at first, but then thought "hey, just go for it" so we did. I'll leave the rest for you to imagine.
And this morning I was woken up to be served breakfast in bed by the children. I was also told that we are going away for a week (me, hubby and Christy) - the other kids are staying with a neighbour and their kids. No idea where I am going as he won't tell me!!
I guess we all have days were we feel like complete crap/shit etc, but I feel so better now.
Here is the photo bigger, since managed to resize it (so can be seen better.

The gorgeous Rico
xx Steff xx