Question about trusting your partner???

Bingles · Jan 28th, 2010, 16:24 PM

Ok before I begin I just want to say I have been with my partner for 10 years now and have had no reason to distrust my partner nor do I have any reason not to trust him now. But the more pregnant I am getting I am finding myself feeling very un trusting of him and I dont know why. He went out with one of his mates sat night and it drove me mad. It never has in the past. I was checking his phone when he went out and left it on charge. The mate he was out with has just called for him again and he is out helping his brother in law and now I am mad again. Is anyone else feeling like this or am I just going mad.

Scooby12345 · Jan 28th, 2010, 16:30 PM

talk to him and tell him how you feel, it'll make you feel loads better. We all feel more vulnerable whilst we're pregnant.

Bingles · Jan 28th, 2010, 16:33 PM

your right I should I just feel so stupid for feeling this way

Sam9kids · Jan 28th, 2010, 16:33 PM

I think its just our insecurities with how we look, our raging hormones etc.

Just sit him down and explain how you are feeling and that although you do trust him, you are just feeling a bit sensitive and you apologise if you do anything that will cause upset xx

Sam9kids · Jan 28th, 2010, 16:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Bingles

your right I should I just feel so stupid for feeling this way

No hunni, dont. Ive done it with some of mine! xx

Bingles · Jan 28th, 2010, 16:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Sam9kids

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Originally Posted by Bingles

your right I should I just feel so stupid for feeling this way

No hunni, dont. Ive done it with some of mine! xx

Thanks I will have a bath and when he gets home talk to him he will think I am mad but so be it lol

mrsraggle · Jan 28th, 2010, 16:40 PM

I totally know how you feel!!!!! I've tried writing posts on here but always delete before I post because I can't word it correctly.

My DH is wonderful and I have NO reason to think not to trust him. But sometimes, I find myself getting all jealous and insecure, totally irrationally.

I sat down with him last week and said how I felt and that I knew it was irrational but that I hoped he'd take it into consideration if he needed to work over or something like that. He was lovely and it made me feel a lot better.

Bingles · Jan 28th, 2010, 16:52 PM

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Originally Posted by mrsraggle

I totally know how you feel!!!!! I've tried writing posts on here but always delete before I post because I can't word it correctly.

My DH is wonderful and I have NO reason to think not to trust him. But sometimes, I find myself getting all jealous and insecure, totally irrationally.

I sat down with him last week and said how I felt and that I knew it was irrational but that I hoped he'd take it into consideration if he needed to work over or something like that. He was lovely and it made me feel a lot better.

I am glad he understood. It gives me a bit more confidence to talk to my OH I am not looking forward to it and god only knows how how I am going to word it but will give it a good shot. I hope word it right

Celesse · Jan 28th, 2010, 16:58 PM

I think its the strange effect of hormones. I don't trust OH any less than before I got pg, but I tend to think he is more useless than I use to and get suspicious he hasn't or wont do stuff round the house.

Bingles · Jan 28th, 2010, 17:07 PM

These hormones are a bitch I never thought pregnancy could change you so much cant wait to get back to my old saneish self

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Bingles Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Ireland Posts: 2,178	Question about trusting your partner??? Ok before I begin I just want to say I have been with my partner for 10 years now and have had no reason to distrust my partner nor do I have any reason not to trust him now. But the more pregnant I am getting I am finding myself feeling very un trusting of him and I dont know why. He went out with one of his mates sat night and it drove me mad. It never has in the past. I was checking his phone when he went out and left it on charge. The mate he was out with has just called for him again and he is out helping his brother in law and now I am mad again. Is anyone else feeling like this or am I just going mad.

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Scooby12345 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: North West, England Posts: 667	talk to him and tell him how you feel, it'll make you feel loads better. We all feel more vulnerable whilst we're pregnant.

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Bingles Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Ireland Posts: 2,178	your right I should I just feel so stupid for feeling this way

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Sam9kids Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Cheshire, UK Posts: 4,928	I think its just our insecurities with how we look, our raging hormones etc. Just sit him down and explain how you are feeling and that although you do trust him, you are just feeling a bit sensitive and you apologise if you do anything that will cause upset xx

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mrsraggle Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: North Birmingham/South Staffs Posts: 9,092	I totally know how you feel!!!!! I've tried writing posts on here but always delete before I post because I can't word it correctly. My DH is wonderful and I have NO reason to think not to trust him. But sometimes, I find myself getting all jealous and insecure, totally irrationally. I sat down with him last week and said how I felt and that I knew it was irrational but that I hoped he'd take it into consideration if he needed to work over or something like that. He was lovely and it made me feel a lot better.

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Celesse Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: North East UK Posts: 5,498	I think its the strange effect of hormones. I don't trust OH any less than before I got pg, but I tend to think he is more useless than I use to and get suspicious he hasn't or wont do stuff round the house.

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Jan 28th, 2010, 17:07 PM	#10
Bingles Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Ireland Posts: 2,178	These hormones are a bitch I never thought pregnancy could change you so much cant wait to get back to my old saneish self

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