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Old Jan 14th, 2010, 17:17 PM   #1
ramblinhaggis
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I would just like to moan.


Please let me moan. I need to moan. But remember, I am also very grateful to be pregnant and have my kids....

Anyways...I worked out tonight that I have been pregnant 6 times in the last 5 years. 4 of which resulted or have nearly resulted in a baby (a wee while to go yet on this one!) which amounts to 36 months of pregnancy. I am a very short fused person when pregnant, except in the second trimester when I am more myself and I am so tired of being like a bear with a sore head, antisocial, snappy, impatient, just a horror really. I dont actually remember what I am like when I am not pregnant, though my husband reassures me I am nothing like I am when I am pregnant. I hope he is right.

This is my last baby, he is booked in for the snip and I will be taking extra precautions to make sure I dont have any more children. I just am impatient now to have my son and begin to be 'ME' again, not this pregnant hormonal walrus.


Okay moan over. I dont actually feel any better, but if anyone else is feeling similar out there, hopefully its made you feel better to know you arent alone.


 
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Old Jan 14th, 2010, 17:43 PM   #2
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This is my first so i cant say i know how you feel but hope you feel better soon!


 
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Old Jan 14th, 2010, 18:51 PM   #3
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think its totally normal at the end of pregnancy to feel like you want to go back to being yourself, let alone spending as much time as you have being pregnant. Ive been the same, made the mistake of asking OH if ive changed while being pregnant and yes, im apparently not as much fun anymore! lol. im with you totally, feel like i have PMT,i go from crying at slightest thing to moaning to getting annoyed in a flash! I go between totally loving OH for putting up with me to finding fault and hating him....The one thing i really hate is im more impatient with dd,i can handle anything but i hate being like that with her.The joys of pregnancy hormone, you'll soon be yourself again,chin up till then and youre def not alone.


 
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Old Jan 15th, 2010, 04:32 AM   #4
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I understand how you feel xx


 
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Old Jan 15th, 2010, 04:36 AM   #5
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eeek, thats a lot of pregnant time

i dont blame you hun, as wonderful as it is nurturing a baby, it can really test your patience if your pregnancy isnt symptom and hassle free


 
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Old Jan 15th, 2010, 04:37 AM   #6
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i know how you feel and this is my first...
im a total hormonal nightmare.. i cannot control my temper its horrid
then after shouting at my OH... i realise that im not really mad at all.. but im so stubborn i wont apologise or anything. i feel terrible about it.
im just counting the hours now
i want to have lovely cuddles with my OH without snapping at him the next minute.

hope you get your bubba here on his due date
then just think.. you can enjoy being mummy and yourself again afterwards xxxx


 
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Old Jan 15th, 2010, 04:37 AM   #7
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This is my first baby but I am totally not the same as I was pre-pregnancy and cannot wait til she is here and I am me again! Hope you feel better soon xx


 
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Old Jan 15th, 2010, 04:50 AM   #8
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Awwww Big hugs!

Just think how great it's going to be once you've had this one and you are yourself again. I'm soo excited to be fitting into normal clothes again and be able to just pig out with a crate of beer and a greasy pizza!!

I keep focused on what I'm going to do once little one is here and I can act normal again...
I'm between either a big takeaway fatty night with a crate of beer/bottle of wine and pizza, kebab, curry and chinese all together!

Or

Going on a wee shopping spree and buying high heel shoes and tight jeans and sparkly tops that don't need to have elastic/rouched sides to fit bump in!


 
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Old Jan 15th, 2010, 05:48 AM   #9
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totally normal chick, esp as you have 3 little children close in age already

not too much longer for you though, ive really had enough and im only 30 weeks still , cant wait to get my life back ,wear my normal clothes, go out, bend over without being sick in my mouth etc, also cant wait to see my little man and like you its my last pregnancy so im trying to enjoy every second at the same time, v hard

hang in there sweetie x x x x x x


 
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Old Jan 15th, 2010, 14:14 PM   #10
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aww bless you all, I thought I would come back to lots of 'pull yourself together' comments which would be totally justified all considering. I have actually done that anyways and do feel on much better form today. I went for my growth scan, only to find that I am not under at all, the midwife was very very wrong, Noah is actually measuring a week ahead, there was nothing to worry about after all. I know its better to be safe than sorry, but after such an up and down pregnancy I really could have done without the stress. So pleased he is fine now, and the nurse cheered me up saying next time I should see her...I should be having the baby. Huraaah! Thanks for the understanding, it means a lot.


 
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