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Old Mar 21st, 2008, 02:29 AM   #1
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Anyone else have a husband that really does not know you are pregnant? I mean...obviously he KNOWS that I'm pg, but it has NO impact on his life. Luckily, this is my 2nd and I know that he is a GREAT dad once the baby is born....but, right now I'm not sure he KNOWS that there is a baby in there...does that make any sense??
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Old Mar 21st, 2008, 03:11 AM   #2
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My husband was like that at first, but now he's VERY attentive and affectionate.
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Old Mar 21st, 2008, 05:08 AM   #3
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I know my DH knows, he is very affectionate, and accommodating. But I swear most of the time, he expects me to have tons of energy. Like I should be able to keep up with him easily. He makes fun of me if I sleep in sometimes. I'm always like how many times were you up in the night to pee?? I think its hard for men to really understand everything that goes on during pregnancy, but they come around when the LO's are here. Good luck, men are a pain sometimes!
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Old Mar 21st, 2008, 07:56 AM   #4
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Mine knows, and he gets worried about the baby and he likes talking to him and stuff, but when it comes down to doing any housework, Im sure he expects me to tidy up after him like his mother does! If I want him to do anything around the house I have to nag him, and I HATE doing that.

Sometimes I wish he would just have a bit of common sense! I guess men don't though do they? lol

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Old Mar 21st, 2008, 10:39 AM   #5
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mines good with somethings he talks to bump and and takes care of me but then expects me not to move in the night and keep walking at his pace its like hello im carrying another person here x
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OH was like that in the early days of my pregnancy but not so much now that he can see I have a huge belly and feel baby moving.
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Old Mar 21st, 2008, 14:27 PM   #7
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Mine knows, and he gets worried about the baby and he likes talking to him and stuff, but when it comes down to doing any housework, Im sure he expects me to tidy up after him like his mother does! If I want him to do anything around the house I have to nag him, and I HATE doing that.

Sometimes I wish he would just have a bit of common sense! I guess men don't though do they? lol

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Common sense and men just dont mix! My OH has none nor does his 2 boys.
I think they need training courses.
I asked my Oh to take the basket of wet washing upstairs for me but has he hung it on the rack to dry??.........noooo i think he thinks a fairy does it!!
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Old Mar 21st, 2008, 16:55 PM   #8
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OH is very sensitive and overprotective of the bump! Doesn't want me to lift anything, wants me to rest as much as possible and he yells at me if I eat crappy foods!

He keeps saying : My son's in there, you're carrying a very precious load so be careful honey.
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Old Mar 21st, 2008, 17:12 PM   #9
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OH is very sensitive and overprotective of the bump! Doesn't want me to lift anything, wants me to rest as much as possible and he yells at me if I eat crappy foods!

He keeps saying : My son's in there, you're carrying a very precious load so be careful honey.
awwww i'm jealous thats so sweet xx
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