JennyG

Last night i was on all fours because my back hurt and i was in front of my OH, when I leaned back to get up my hip popped and hurt like hell. OH panicked because he didn't know what was up. Told him it was just my hip and he went oh ok, are you ok?? Said no and burst into tears (quite normal for me at the moment) He then said that he can't wait for this baby to be born.

The thing is that made me really worry, as I've had a horrible pregnancy so far. I've not really had the chance to enjoy it. I've felt ill and really really hormonal all the time and moaned quite a lot (i feel like I have the right tho)
So now I'm worrying that he is fed up with me. I've spoken to him about it and he says he understands but i'm getting to the point where I daren't tell him when something is wrong, cause it seems to be all the time.

Does anyone else feel like this?


I'm 32 wks!!

AquaDementia

Don't even worry about that. My husband has said that he doesn't think he could go through all this again, just because I have complained all along. However, in the past few months, he came to realize how difficult this is.
The thing is, this is not your normal state and of course you will complain at everything that is bothering you. I still complain on a daily basis, and unfortunately he is the one who gets to hear it but you have to get it out somehow.

Hope things get better.

Samantha675

No, he is just worried for you, he loves you and doesn't like seeing you have such a hard time. Plus, he is probably just as ready to see his LO as you are. I know my DH is.

And thank goodness we have this wonderful board to come to and see that we are not the only one having a hard time! I would be so lost if it were not for this board.

Vickie

I agree with the other girls. Your OH probably doesn't like seeing you in pain and is ready for the pregnancy to be over with for that reason

PitBullMommy

I feel the same way. I haven't had any time to enjoy being pregnant yet either. The first tri I had HG up until about 16-17 weeks, then I was exhausted..now I'm just uncomfy ALL the time. ACK. I hope the rest goes quickly for you. My DH doesn't want me to get PG EVER again!

missjess

Don't worry, OH is the same! It must be really hard for them to hear us complain 24/7 and not being able to do anything to take our pains away.

hope you feel better .

Samantha675

I must not be complaining enought, my DH wants to get me knocked up again and again!!!

clairebear

my oh cant wait to get started in the next baby to x

Linzi

*hugs*

I said to my boyfriend the other day 'I think Im going to miss being pregnant, I quite like it' and he was like 'No you don't, you bloody complain all the time!'

You know what its like when men get a cold though, so god forbid what it would be like if they could be pregnant. Just keep that in mind.

You're allowed to complain anyway Don't feel bad!

Just hope you feel better soon

xxx

cparks1

I'm sure your OH is just as ready as you are to meet your little one. Also, I'm sure he understands that what you are going through is rough and he just doesn't know what to do to make you more comfortable. I know my hubby gets frustrated with me. He says I nag all the time, but he is already talking about having 3 kids and we haven't even had the one. Men just don't understand. They say they know what we are going through but they really don't. Like one poster said, men can't even handle having a cold let alone being pregnant. Like always, women have to do all the work so it is just meant to be that they have to put up with us bitching. They just ignore us anyways...