amy_tea

I'm in a bad mood today. Not really for any reason at all. Didn't sleep all that well last night and have spent most of the day tidying and cleaning around the house.

I tried to make a simple trifle and I screwed it up. My OH wouldn't help me find the custard to start a new one because he was already doing something else. Me, being the impatient bitch that i am, went in a strop because i wanted it right there and then. So my trifle ingredients sit on the kitchen worktop, abandoned cause 'I don't want the fucking trifle anyway'

Why am i being so horrible

And why can't my OH just come and give me a hug to make me feel a bit better? Instead he's gone upstairs to build things... fun

Sorry for the rant, just had to get it out

Nikkinoonoo

I hope you feel better soon xXx

AquaDementia

it's just hormones. sometimes you just feel like everything and everyone is going on your nerves.

feel better

TashaAndBump

I'm sure you will feel better soon - we all have our down moments like this. The thing to remember is that it is all just hormones and emotions and they will not stick around forever... You'll probably feel right as rain tomorrow.

Maybe you could try telling your OH when you need a hug? Hope you feel better soon x

amy_tea

told him i needed a hug and he said well he's not a mind reader.

He doesn't understand why i'm being so complicated... i just sat and cried because i don't know either

xXhayleyXx

Awww hun,hope u feel better soon

TashaAndBump

Try using very I-centred statements when you're trying to talk about how you're feeling - otherwise for men it can seem very much as if you're accusing them of something or blaming them even if you are not. So instead of saying "you didn't give me a hug when I needed one you're just doing your building and leaving me to it..." you could try something like "I feel very emotional today and I need a hug please..." He can't come back with "I'm not a mind-reader" to that, because your retort would obviously be "that's why I'm telling you what I need; I need a hug". This should hopefully bring out his loving and protective side - he'll want to make you feel better.

Hope you do feel better soon. You're not being complicated - you're finding your emotions a challenge and who doesn't every now and then? It's not like you're acting this way out of any malace or like you're deliberately being akward... I'm sure your OH will understand this deep down - even if he seems frustrated on the surface - He's only a human being trying to deal with all these changes and emotions, too!

I think you guys need a little chat and a snuggle to work things out...... Feel better x

amy_tea

sorry for this... i feel bad that i moaned

Thanks for your hugs and advice xx

xXhayleyXx

Dont feel bad hunny and u certainly dont need to say sorry either xx

TashaAndBump

Don't feel bad, silly - We all need to get things off our chest sometimes. We're all here to offer a hug and the best advice we can... I hope that it has helped!