An off day...

jenny82 · Nov 21st, 2009, 10:17 AM

Am so tired and emotional these days! OH is away at an all-day gig and it pisses me off - even though he gets paid, hes still doing it with his mates, so to speak, so they're having loads of craic, while I'm stuck here.

I hate this house and need to get out, but at the same time, I don't want to leave

I'm lonely, yet don't want visitors. What is up with me?!!

Am exhausted after hoovering 3 floors of our house. Keep pulling out wires, knocking stuff over and generally being very clumsy so I keep screaming out in fury at things. My poor wee dog thinks I'm shouting at him some of the time, bless him

babyblog · Nov 21st, 2009, 10:43 AM

Hi hun, sounds like a pooey day youre having

Im a day in front of you-i think its cos its so near the end-like you say, i want to go out but then have no energy if i do!I was crying this morn fior no reason and am very grumpy. You are allowed to be cross that OH is out, leaving you to suffer alone! Hopefully tomoror be a better day, and heres hoping we get our contractions soon! xx

lottie_2007 · Nov 21st, 2009, 10:44 AM

I have days like this too hun, its hard for oh to understand that although he's going to work he's still going out and seeing his mates etc. I'm finding it difficult having lottie as its such hard work going out with a 2 year old and waddling like a duck, its easier to stay in especially in this horrid weather! I've put the fire on with my feet up and lit some candles and am having a proper relaxing day! A nice bath always makes me feel better too! Wont be long now! xx

lucky L · Nov 21st, 2009, 10:48 AM

i know what you mean. I feel restless/aggitated/anxious but cant be bothered going anywhere to take my mind off it. feel like i'm just sitting here waiting waiting waiting........
thankfully it'll all be worth it in the end (its just the not knowing when the end is thats really bothering me!)
big hugs to you. xx

Szaffi · Nov 21st, 2009, 11:21 AM

I had a day like that yesterday, and did feel like staying in, but decided to go out for a couple of rounds in the market. It made my grumpy mood more bearable, so when OH came home, I didn't tear his head off.

These last days suck, but remind yourself that there is only so much left of it and soon you'll have your LO with you.

jenny82 · Nov 21st, 2009, 13:59 PM

Have calmed down a little bit. House is at least tidy and I had a bath, which relaxed me and made my hair all nice.

Bit of strictly, xfactor, glass of wine with an indian...I'll be ok

Nov 21st, 2009, 10:17 AM	#1
jenny82 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 7,294	An off day... Am so tired and emotional these days! OH is away at an all-day gig and it pisses me off - even though he gets paid, hes still doing it with his mates, so to speak, so they're having loads of craic, while I'm stuck here. I hate this house and need to get out, but at the same time, I don't want to leave I'm lonely, yet don't want visitors. What is up with me?!! Am exhausted after hoovering 3 floors of our house. Keep pulling out wires, knocking stuff over and generally being very clumsy so I keep screaming out in fury at things. My poor wee dog thinks I'm shouting at him some of the time, bless him

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Nov 21st, 2009, 10:43 AM	#2
babyblog Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 2,180	Hi hun, sounds like a pooey day youre having Im a day in front of you-i think its cos its so near the end-like you say, i want to go out but then have no energy if i do!I was crying this morn fior no reason and am very grumpy. You are allowed to be cross that OH is out, leaving you to suffer alone! Hopefully tomoror be a better day, and heres hoping we get our contractions soon! xx

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Nov 21st, 2009, 10:44 AM	#3
lottie_2007 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: STAFFORDSHIRE Posts: 4,452	I have days like this too hun, its hard for oh to understand that although he's going to work he's still going out and seeing his mates etc. I'm finding it difficult having lottie as its such hard work going out with a 2 year old and waddling like a duck, its easier to stay in especially in this horrid weather! I've put the fire on with my feet up and lit some candles and am having a proper relaxing day! A nice bath always makes me feel better too! Wont be long now! xx

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Nov 21st, 2009, 10:48 AM	#4
lucky L Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Aberdeen Posts: 77	i know what you mean. I feel restless/aggitated/anxious but cant be bothered going anywhere to take my mind off it. feel like i'm just sitting here waiting waiting waiting........ thankfully it'll all be worth it in the end (its just the not knowing when the end is thats really bothering me!) big hugs to you. xx

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Szaffi Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Brussels, Belgium Posts: 1,959	I had a day like that yesterday, and did feel like staying in, but decided to go out for a couple of rounds in the market. It made my grumpy mood more bearable, so when OH came home, I didn't tear his head off. These last days suck, but remind yourself that there is only so much left of it and soon you'll have your LO with you.

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jenny82 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 7,294	Have calmed down a little bit. House is at least tidy and I had a bath, which relaxed me and made my hair all nice. Bit of strictly, xfactor, glass of wine with an indian...I'll be ok

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