I have swollen feet really bad, so I know how you feel! It really looks like I have oranges for ankles...
I'm also suffering with her putting all her weight on my right side. She is head down and engaged, but somehow, her lower half lays mostly on my right side and when she kicks or presses her feet out the right side it kills me. I just want to push her and say "Hey move back into the middle and stay there." Lol.
This is getting exhausting....so I agree with you. It's time for them to come out, because I'm not handling it well anymore either!!
