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Old Nov 8th, 2009, 15:32 PM   #1
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Guess who's going to be a single teen mum!


Yup, me. Fun times. I get a load of crap from his family saying i was faking then the childs not his, now were finished! And he had the cheek to text me after no contact for two weeks asking how i got over him so fast?! Uh YEAH. I had no choice love. Why the heck do guys have to be such idiotic mummys boys who cant think for there bloody selfs. Yeah your mothers sitting there saying im having a 'phantom' pregnancy then calling me a whore when you show her the scan picture? And when i get pressured into telling my family i was pregnant, he refuses to tell his grandparents? WHAT THE HELL. Seriously, his family have had 14 weeks to get use to the idea and come to terms with the fact im pregnant, whilst my family have had about 10 weeks yet there completely fine? URGH. I just dont get it. It takes more than one person to make a baby! Him and his family are stupid, idiotic, stuck up gits. If they think they can come running when she's born they can think again! Not one of them have offered to buy something for rosalie either. Its my family and me thats buying everything. I am so sick of guys right now

Sorry for the rant guys but i just needed to vent it out some how


 
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Old Nov 8th, 2009, 15:39 PM   #2
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His family sound horrendous!
Try not to let them get to you so much, just concentrate on you and baby

The single parent part of the forum is great, so any time you want to go over there and let it all out and have a rant you can, the girls are great over there!

Hope you feel better soon, being a single parent isnt the end of the world, its just the start of something different, and maybe even better

xx


 
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Old Nov 8th, 2009, 15:40 PM   #3
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Hey hun, welcome to the club! :-/

Rant all you like, it will make you feel loads better. Big *hugs* It sucks, but it does get better xxx


 
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Old Nov 8th, 2009, 15:40 PM   #4
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Thanks guys
Just im so scared as it is, and now im even more scared! Him and his family are so not helping stressing me out aswel there getting on my last nerve.


 
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Old Nov 8th, 2009, 15:41 PM   #5
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Hey hunni

I'm a teen mummy too if you ever need to talk just PM me
xx


 
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Old Nov 8th, 2009, 15:45 PM   #6
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The best you can do about his family is just ignore them, its sooo much easier said then done i know, but it will get much easier with time


 
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Old Nov 8th, 2009, 18:13 PM   #7
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I agree they sound horrible I Hope things get better for you !

You should join us on the single parents thread Let it all out. I've found everyone's lovely over there

xx


 
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Old Nov 8th, 2009, 18:20 PM   #8
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hey sweetie, as lou's already said the single parent forum is great on here and ul meet loads of girlies in the same situ

im a single mummy (slightly not a teen...ama 21-teen lol) and i know exactly what your going through with the family situ

if u need to talk you can pm me...anytime... or like i said jump on to the single parents forum, theres always someone to support you.

your best bet is just to ignore em huni, concentrate on you and your baby and do what YOUR comfortable with and dont allow them to stress you out. draw strength from your own family too

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Old Nov 8th, 2009, 18:23 PM   #9
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The best you can do about his family is just ignore them, its sooo much easier said then done i know, but it will get much easier with time
I agree

You for one can be dignified and grown up

All the best for your pregnancy. xx


 
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Old Nov 8th, 2009, 19:43 PM   #10
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Defo come over to single parents forum hun when u feel u need a wee rant or some advice. My husband left me when I was 6 weeks pregnant, and I found the girls in single parent forum a great support. Im not a teen, Im 24. So i can still totally get how ur feeling, Im not an aul granny lol. Keep ur chin up, at least u have ur family, and that wonderful wee baby to think of. and if u need anything just stick a post up or send a PM , we are all here for u x


 
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