Pregnancy - Third Trimester

anita665 · Feb 6th, 2008, 22:37 PM

I always have the feeling I'm being rushed too. One thing that does annoy me is that I still haven't been weighed since my booking in appointment and would really like to know how much weight I've gained!

xxleannexx · Feb 6th, 2008, 22:45 PM

yeh and me! but you kno whats really funny, the other day she did this chart for me to put in my notes to measure the bump each time i go now and she said it has been specially designed for my height and previous weight etc. well i didnt think anythink of it at first then when i got home i realised that she has never weighed me or measured me and she has got this numbers from god knows where, i think she has seriously just made them up as she cant of got them from my doctor records or anything as they have never weighed me or measured me. Unless im just been really stupid icant hink where she has got these random figures from!

coz · Feb 6th, 2008, 22:52 PM

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Originally Posted by xxleannexx

yeh i kno how you feel because although i love going to hear the babies heartbeat and for her to say everything is going great etc im only ever in there 5 mins, and have never actually ever really spoke to my midwife about how im feeling, the labour or anything. she just assumed where i would be giving birth and i have had to ask about parent education classes etc. Put it this was i woul dnever call her if i had a problem cuz i dont hink she even remembers who iam when i go haha as she has to ask how far gone i am, i would just go to the local hospital lol!

yes this is exactly how i feel, where my friend who is pregnant says she spent loads of time with her midwife and they sounded like that had a good chat about pregnancy ect xxx

coz · Feb 6th, 2008, 22:53 PM

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Originally Posted by anita665

I always have the feeling I'm being rushed too. One thing that does annoy me is that I still haven't been weighed since my booking in appointment and would really like to know how much weight I've gained!

yh people keep asking me how much ive gained and i dont know cos i also havnt been weighed since first appointment , not worrying too much tho luckly ive stayed slim everywhere apart from my bump lol xxx

coz · Feb 6th, 2008, 22:55 PM

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Originally Posted by xxleannexx

yeh and me! but you kno whats really funny, the other day she did this chart for me to put in my notes to measure the bump each time i go now and she said it has been specially designed for my height and previous weight etc. well i didnt think anythink of it at first then when i got home i realised that she has never weighed me or measured me and she has got this numbers from god knows where, i think she has seriously just made them up as she cant of got them from my doctor records or anything as they have never weighed me or measured me. Unless im just been really stupid icant hink where she has got these random figures from!

lol thats strange

oh and u dont live too far away from me hun im in wolverhampton xxx

xxleannexx · Feb 6th, 2008, 22:57 PM

ye, its not that she isnt nice or anything i just got the impression from other pregnant women that they felt quite close to their midwife in a way and could call her if they had any questions or worries but i dont at all! well atleast its not just me, maybe i just got the wrong end of the stick lol and had high hopes from her!