welshcakes79

Hi everyone! am i the only one who feels like they want to be sick from nerves at the thought of labour? my midwife hasnt been the most sympathetic person so now ive had to ring my dr and to get them to refere me privately to see a consultant about a c-section... im just wondering is this normal or am i having a complete hormonal hissy fit lol...

Madwolf3

Do you have to have a c-section, or are you wanting one since you're so scared of labor? I had a c-section with my first, and have to have one again. I'm terrified! It went fine last time, but that doesn't make me less scared! As far as I'm concerned, there's nothing natural about it, natural OR c-section! LOL!!!! Don't worry, we are all like that at some point!

Jazzy

I'm scared aswell, just think positive hun and it will be a positive experience

welshcakes79

thanks for the replies guys, i dont have to have a c-section but would prefere it to actually giving birth. i dont know why i feel this way as i was with my friend when she had hers (1st natural & 2nd emergency c-section) and i was fine i looked at everything but the thought of doing it myself >shudder<.... i guess ill just have to wait and see what this consultant says fingers crossed. will post the outcome if anyone interested. good luck with ur babies how far along is every1? im 36+5 days

Samantha675

What is it exactly that scares you so badly Welsh?

Jazzy

I'm 36+5 aswell, I know how u feel tho, I want to be induced due to severe SPD which affects everything I do, but they don't tend to allow C-sections just due to wanting one, there normally has to be a reason behind it, but it won't hurt to see what the consultant says

jenny873

im terrified, i try not to think about it but when i do i get really squeemish and dread it lol xxx

welshcakes79

you know i have absolutley no idea what scares me about it but its that bad that ive woken myself absolutley sobbing in terror at the thought of having to do it a few times over past week since doing my birth plan with my m/w...lol guess im just one wierd lady

jenny873

your birth will probably seem fine because your expecting it to be so bad x

welshcakes79

p.s jazzy i also have spd m/w refered me to see physitherapist and she taught me some ways of moving out of bed, in and out car, up and down stairs and how to put socks on...it helped loads and i also hot a support belt from her. are u having physio?