LilysMummy

Ive got no dignity left anymore so I dont mind saying this

Me and OH actually did the deed last night ( about the 5th time since finding out someone is paranoid LO will feel it ) and it really hurt god if that hurt how am I ever going to manage with a babies head coming out that way lol!

Lord almighty this is going to be fun!

xx

jenny873

ive been having the same thoughts as u, it really hurt me 2 and its made me even more scared now because im thinking it that hurt them the babies head is gona feel like a bowling ball lol! x

snugglemuffin

Tis all because of blood flow down there kinda tightens everything as your kinda swolen. When you go into labour the horemones will sort it out.

I waved good bye to my dignity at the hospital door when i had joshua so i just asked my midwife. With josh i didnt sleep with anyone from conception untill he was about 6 months old so wasnt a problem i noticed. But this time the couple of times we have managed we have had the same problem. Joshua came out and he was 9lb 10oz so i wouldn't worry

BurtonBaby

We definitely dont do it as often, but just about every time we do, it is painful. Usually I end up taking a bath after, since I'm a little sore down there. I was worried about how I could handle birth if it hurt so bad just to bd.

Thanks for the info SnuggleMuffin. I thought it was something like that. =)

LilysMummy

Thanx girls! I was hoping sex would be my last resort to kickstart labour but after last night I think I will give me a miss LO is gonna do enough damage dont need to help the process along myself!

xx

Jazzy

Its sore for me aswell, and I worry that it will start labour

MarchBaby

The last time we did the deed, it was while spooning (my belly is already too big) and at the end when I rolled on my back, by belly was all weird shaped. my OH was like " never doing it again!!" It was so funny.. the look on his face ""

But I do get sore if it lasts too long but not really down there, more towards the bottom of my bump starts to get painful. It worries me so I dont like to do it.

vejables

hmm i haven't really had these problems... dh and i still "do it" regularly (2-3 times weekly) and it hasn't been painful for me... i have noticed that sometimes afterwards it is kinda sore feeling, but not as painful as you ladies make it sound... hope i dont get this, as we are both still enjoying ourselves lol