jenny873

now that im 4 weeks away from my due date ive been thinking really wierd stuff, like i sit and think about when ive had the baby and i start to think i cant imagine a baby fitting into my life. i dont know if it is because im young or what but ive been pretty worried all the way through my pregnancy about all kinds especially the birth going wrong. but the past week or so ive been having really bad thoughts and dreams about the birth and that something bads going to happen to me or the baby! is this normal its really wierd! x

Tam

Hi babe

Welcome to baby and bump!

It is all very normal babe......

The dreams are a way of our anxietys coming out, so we can have some really weird and scary but 'real' dreams

As for a baby fitting into your life, that is very natural as it is all new to you you have been living your life for x amount of years without a LO and now you have to live your life with a LO, there is obviously a certain amount of adapting that comes with that and certainly one hell of a life change! It is all very natural babe, so don't go worrying, we have all been there! x

happy_chick

Im sure its perfectly normal hun, your scared, worried and anxious and this is obviously being reflected in your dreams. Im sure all with be fine hun and the birth will go smoothly, you will be a great mummy & will want the very best for your little one

If u wanna chat give me a shout hun x

TryingAgain

If you are going nuts, then i must be too, lol!!

I've started to think the same, what if something happens to me, what if something happens to the baby.......but in a couple of weeks time no doubt we'll be wondering what we were so worried for!!