Getting small trickles again - update shitty MW - Page 3

Bekkiboo · Jul 3rd, 2009, 15:16 PM

I find that it doesn't matter which hospital they are from, a lot of midwives in general are very cold hearted and rude... I've had various poor experiences with various different midwives this time round... Whatever happened to doing it for the love of the job?

After being told my pains were purely ligament pain, over the phone by a very rude midwife after my community midwife told me I must get it checked if I get the pain again, I have been too frightened to call delivery suite again because of the way the last midwife made me feel about calling and I have been getting those pains alot more frequently but am too frightened to call, so i know exactly how you are feeling right now!!

I know it makes me a bit of a hypocryte but definately go back to the hospital and ask to be seen by a different midwife x

Pessimistic · Jul 3rd, 2009, 15:37 PM

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Originally Posted by wendino

That's exactly it. Its your hind waters. That is what happened to me.

They still do the tests here in Canada, and they could tell it was mine. Did they do an internal or anything?

The last time I went in about this, the MW did an internal and said it was very fluidy and she could not tell if it was my waters.. I was just sent home after babys heartbeat was monitored..
This time I wasn't checked at all because she was saying I only came in a week ago and they don't like keep checking incase of infection. I don't think this is right surely.

Not had anymore leaking but I am just sat down on the sofa at the moment. It comes now and again in the day which is why it is so hard convincing the MW's.

& Bekkiboo yeah it makes me not want to ring up, I don't feel like a lot of MW's are passionate about their job anymore, or at least don't act like it.

BlackBerry25 · Jul 3rd, 2009, 18:24 PM

Hope you start going into labour soon hun. Mine didn't fully break until about 7 cm and the doctor stuck his hand up and POP all over him hahah.

millygirl · Jul 3rd, 2009, 20:43 PM

hope this all gets sorted for you. Anyway who cares if you went in a week ago, it's your fisrt baby for gods sake, your not to know what your feeling is part of labour or something else, what a cow, id be putting a complaint in once you have had your baby and settled.Who does she think she is???

Malingo · Jul 4th, 2009, 01:01 AM

I had just trickles for ages and thought nothing f it, it wasnt even enough to soak my knickers let alone a pad but it has been slowly leaking, midwife confirmed yesterday and I am being induced today because of this, Please push to get further checked out hun xxx

BlackBerry25 · Jul 4th, 2009, 19:49 PM

How are you doing today?

Jul 3rd, 2009, 15:16 PM	#21
Bekkiboo Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Birmingham UK Posts: 1,593	I find that it doesn't matter which hospital they are from, a lot of midwives in general are very cold hearted and rude... I've had various poor experiences with various different midwives this time round... Whatever happened to doing it for the love of the job? After being told my pains were purely ligament pain, over the phone by a very rude midwife after my community midwife told me I must get it checked if I get the pain again, I have been too frightened to call delivery suite again because of the way the last midwife made me feel about calling and I have been getting those pains alot more frequently but am too frightened to call, so i know exactly how you are feeling right now!! I know it makes me a bit of a hypocryte but definately go back to the hospital and ask to be seen by a different midwife x

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Jul 3rd, 2009, 18:24 PM	#23
BlackBerry25 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Canada Posts: 15,181	Hope you start going into labour soon hun. Mine didn't fully break until about 7 cm and the doctor stuck his hand up and POP all over him hahah.

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Jul 3rd, 2009, 20:43 PM	#24
millygirl Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: australia Posts: 330	hope this all gets sorted for you. Anyway who cares if you went in a week ago, it's your fisrt baby for gods sake, your not to know what your feeling is part of labour or something else, what a cow, id be putting a complaint in once you have had your baby and settled.Who does she think she is???

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Jul 4th, 2009, 01:01 AM	#25
Malingo Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 1,235	I had just trickles for ages and thought nothing f it, it wasnt even enough to soak my knickers let alone a pad but it has been slowly leaking, midwife confirmed yesterday and I am being induced today because of this, Please push to get further checked out hun xxx

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Jul 4th, 2009, 19:49 PM	#26
BlackBerry25 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Canada Posts: 15,181	How are you doing today?

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