Sorry girls but I really need to have a whinge. I have no one to talk to and im sick.

I am hating every last second of this pregnancy now, and I know I may sound like im droaning on but I really am uncomfortable.

I cant walk far, I have awful pains at the tops of my legs on my inner thigh restricting me of being able to roll over in bed, get out of bed, walk up the stairs even put my clothes on and get in and out of the car. Im consantly in agony and every one just says... Ahh im sure you're just felling like that because you're fed up. The truth is, I am fed up bt im not exagerating the pain one little bit. Ive tried just to get on with it but I just cant help feeling so low. Im constantly battling tears when trying to move around. Even getting up from the couch is a task in its self.

I wouldnt say im carrying a small baby either. I just want it all over. I feel so emotional and I feel like I should be enjoying my last few days/weeks of pregnancy but I really cannot cope any longer.

I also dont think OH realises how hard things are for me. Even picking his washing up of the ground as he is too lazy to put it in the wash basket. I feel taken for granted by his parents expecting me to drop this off and drop that off when its painful to drive etc.

And to top it all off, my midwife dosent even think that baby wants to come out for a while. OH wont go near me and I feel unloved. Theres not much contact between us at all, but im not sure if this is due to his depression which dosent appear to be getting any better

Am I just being an idiot?

ur not being an idiot hun im really sorry ur going thru these emotions right now hopefully bubs will prove m/w wrong and decide to come early for u ave u tried talking to oh telling him ur feelings etc?

Oh boy you sound just like me and Im 2 wks behind you! She explained to me last night how things sofen up too on preparing for labour but pain that brings tears isn't good not long now! maybe you could ask for sweep? My MW said 27th (week after edd) but the MW on the ward said with this type of pain could be offered at 39 weeks?

your not alone on how you feel either after everything we went through I am so pleased to be where we are and truely feel blessed to be carrying her but I can't help wanting it over I am so fedup and starting to feel a lil low.



Youve had a lot of messing about from them too hun it cant have helped x

I know. I fel guilty for feeling like this after all the months of heartache with bfp's etc and I feel really proud to be where I am today but I really just cant help it.

Im glad im not the only one. I dont know what I'd do with out being able to use the forum for suppot which may sound a little sad at 21. But as I say I moved upto the Noth East away from all my friends and family and only really have OH sister to talk to and as good a friends we have become I just feel like there are somethings I cant discuss with her etc.

defo don't feel guilty although know what you mean exactly.

And Id never call you sad for being thankful of the support BabyandBump offers Nah over all your not sad one of the reasons for me wanting this forum is realising how much support this kind of forum can give to people like me and anything related. Its a part of us now that I don't regret pestering my OH to do even hes glad now that we did it.

i didnt mean it to sound offesive, i think my post portrayed it that way. But any way I am thankful

offensive? how? lol

I was only kidding on my reply hun - maybe that looked wrong? your post didn't at all. I dunno where I'd have been without half of teh support I got online because offline was HARD and I didn't have anyone to talk to that could relate or even be interested and my OH found it hard too.

babybean

Hope baby comes soon for you

x

I am so glad I am not the only one who feels like they are getting fed up with the pregnancy. I truely feel blessed for making another life and bringing it into this world but I am finding the constant comments on what you eat and how much worse it will get, the back pain, swollen ankles, the constant effort in moving around, the complete and utter exhaustion and the inability to sleep well is really getting to me. I am normally a very active person and these restrictions and aches and pains are very trying. I feel guilty for whining and to looking forward to the end and having my body back but I am like you, I can't help it.

To top it off the end is kind of scaring me too! All that pain and unknowns. People can tell you all they want about labour and delivery but you never really know until you, yourself, go through it.

Thanks for listening and go out to all finding pregnancy a miracle but yet very trying on you mentally and physically.

aww wobbs---- wont be long now---- i feel ur pain --- course i dont like that ur oh isnt being considerate in that department--- u should not feel unloved ==== try talking to him--- i wouldnt be surprised if he didnt even realize he was making u feel that way---i'm sure it wasnt intentional--- and hey no offense sweetie but try not to complain to him too much either about every ache and pain-im sure he can see that- cause i know with my OH he seems to be fed up with my complaining about every ache and pain kinda thinks im exaggerating it even if i'm not--- but hey itll def. be worth it in the end when she's in ur arms and he's there to support u both in every way--- alright---feel better now---