Im really starting to consider it now, i wasnt going to, wanted to let him come out on his own but im so worried he will go voer xmas and i will be taken away from the kids.

I had to go to hospital last night just to be monitored coz he wasnt moving much atall yesterday and while i was there they did an examination....my cervix is closed and very far back so im no where near ready, kind of dissapointed me alot.

Soooo what kind of things will help my cervix ripen! does the rasberry tea and tablets do that? or does it just bring on labour if your cervix is ready....also, does sex help to ripen ytour cervix, or again, will that only help if and when your cervix is ready?

lots of googling today! lol

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Loved the subject line reminded me of my dinner, ball, sex, pineapple blah blah thread & I just thought "she gives up"

The tea as far as I could read Layla it just helps your cervix doesn't actually bring on labour. Theres so much info on one little thing Im scared what to and not to try ... so have stuck with pineaplle tea and sex.

yeah im scared to try things too, i dont wnat to start labour, only to get my cervix ready, on Coby at this stage he was fully engaged and my cervix was soft and thin, altho far back.
At the mo my cervix is doing nothing, thick, closed and far back and he is only 2/5 engaged which is nothing!

I just want to do things to bring it down and soften it up, then labour can start when its ready

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Im going to phone the beatuy clinic today and see if i can book in for reflexology sessions too

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I think my cervix is far back Layla - failed to find last night so not as close as we thought maybe.

I had shocking pains last night though they scared me a bit and thismorning Im sat here waiting on her moving

the moveing thing worried me last night, he normaly moves about so much but he hardly did anything yesterday so i phoned to get checked, i was put on the monitor and he just stayed asleep, i had to keep drinking ice water to wake him up, worked tho, he moved about loads once i started drinking

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Her movements haven't felt same in a handful of days (been saying to OH). wonder if I should get checked too! Ive only felt her move very slightly this morning too.

yeah its worth phoneing up, if only just to be put on the monitor for peace of mind.

if your no getting the ten a day then id phone to let them know

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got my first reflexology appointment booked for next Tuesday

I told the lady i wanted him out and she said it wasnt aproblem an that she would just focas on doing that in the treatment, it will last an hour, fab!

Will have to have lots of sex from now till then to get my cervix ready lol

Hope it works!

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Can they do that in one session?