that hubby won't love baby? and isn't excited at all???

Have you spoken to him about it?

yes, thats what got me worried in the first place...

Im sure your husband is just acting out of being nurvous. Im sure once the LO arrives he will be a natural

I agree with Suz, perhaps once he sees lil onehe will feel much more excited. Some people take a white for those kinds of things. Has he been able to feel lil one kick through your tummy yet?

my DH wasnt very excited towards the end... i think he was just worried about being a dad and how our lives would change.

but when our son was born he burst out crying and has loved him more and more every day since.

i wouldnt worry hun x

I know from OH they find it hard to bond like we do - Well I can imagine and so can he I guess. I feel things he can't at the end of the day.

The doppler helped I think coz he coud take part in that.

I worried about the same thing but as the time gets closer I know hes worried about being a parent (arent we all first time?) yet he is excited too We just know its going to change our lives and although have an idea of what you don't really know til your there do you which is very nerving.

x

its the other way round with me, i know Jase is looking forward to it and will be fantastic, but i dont feel a bond with the baby yet and i did with my others, i know it will kick in when hes born (hope so anyway!) but right now i dont feel anything other than im having another baby

x

I wouldnt worry bout it too much, im sure once baby arrives your oh will adore him/her.

I kinda know what you mean tho, my oh doesnt seem as excited this time as he was with our first, which i thought he would be especially as we are having a boy, he takes an interest but he doesnt take to my bump hardly which he did loads with nicole, but im pretty sure once he's here he'll love him just as much as he loves nicole!!