Im feeling upset and rejected as we went round a friends house last night and he told them that he didnt find me sexy being pregnant which hurt me as he had a short affair 3 months ago. I also had a fling with someone I knew who still found me attractive pregnant who said im great pregnant and its a shame my ex doesnt realise it. I was flattered that he liked me for me but my ex says he was using me.
I still feel rejected by my ex for what he done to me and he said he finds it hard living with me as im always moaning and that im not normal.
I didnt used to fancy him when he was fat but I still made an effort to have sex with him and now he has lost weight it has gone to his head and he repays me like this.at a time when im vunerable and feeling hormaonal.

How are your men treating you being pregnant?

You back with him hun? Confused with OH & ex in your post.

I think he needs a fucking slap! Sorry but oh boy after everything he makes you feel like that and voices it infront of friends!!

aww hun, your OH is not worth all this upset. I cant belive what you have been through and put up with over the past few months.

What is the situation with your and your OH right now, are you still together? is he taking an interest in the baby?
Whats going to happen when you give birth, will he be bugging you every 5 mins to lose the baby weight etc? coz you wont need the extra stress of that.

I know that having a baby is a scarey time, but i think you need to look at your Oh and work out if he is really worth all this, he doesnt sound very nice or suportive towards you atall, and at this stage of the pregnancy he should be!

Sorry, i dont mean to come across harsh, im trying my best to word this nicely, i just worry that you are being put under unessary pressure, its not good for you

x

i agree with whats been said hun.. dont let him treat you like crap

I get treated like a princess!

My OH finds me very attractive and when I have cravings he goes round to the shop and gets me what I want and when I am hungry at night he gets up and prepares me something after my wish!

I get back massages, foot massages and am not expected to keep the flat immaculate (as this is really getting hard at the moment, although the flat is tiny!)

My OH is the best man in the world and I love him truly!

sorry, miss maternal, I know this won't help you, but I wanted to answer your question!

in my opinion men should appreciate we are going through all this for nine month to give them a baby!
and at last they were involved in making the baby as well!

I think the father of your baby does not act appropriate at all!

You shouldn't let him treat you like that,through both my pregnancies now my DH has been nothing but supportive and loving,he loves the bump and still finds me attractive.
Pregnant women even though we don't feel it, are beautiful annd deserve to be treated with respect from their partners.I hope you can figure this whole thing out,reading your other post it sounds as if your OH is not giving you what you need during this time.Goodluck

I have gone back to make a go of things as I do still love him and he has done up the nursary. We just seem to piss eachother off and he makes me feel like crap and even said he is worried I wont cope with the baby if I get post natal depression. I want to prove him wrong and I know I WILL be a good mum and cope with my baby. I just cant cope with his honesty and put down comments at the moment. He says I want to pick a fight with him all the time and that its my hormones but I have always been hard to live with. I just want him to respect me but he says that you earn respect.
He is making an effort with the baby and is nice when it suits him but where he is an only child he is selfish and thinks I should put him first and is jealous if I spend time with my family. Thats why I thought a family of our own would make him feel more wanted.

I could not have worded my reply as good as these girls have MissM.

I think you sound like a warm hearted person and he just doesn't deserve you and he doesn't deserve you to make excuses for him why you have tried again... hes threw it back in your face from what I can see.

Nice to see hes made having your first baby a happy one and filled you with confidence ... way to go to make you feel like shit before the babies even born. If you do find yourself down and blue I personally would assume from all this he has caused you the outcome.

Sorry if Im wrong in what I have said.

Sorry to be so blunt, but what he is doing sounds to me like a form of domestic abuse. I really think you should try and find someone to talk to, even if it's somewhere like Women's Aid - they're not just there for women who's partners are violent.