Are you all having these feelings?

Bonded, excited, love, protective etc?

I havent got anything and im a bit worried about it, i dont seem to feel much connection to this baby and at this stage i had with the others.

Everyone keeps asking me how long i have left, when i tell them they always say 'oh wow not long, are you excited, bet you just want him out now dont you'

To be honest....no, im not exicted, dont want him out, it just feels like a normal day each day for me.

Hopeing it will kick in soon, has anyone else got these feelings later on in there pregnancys before?

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hi i was feeling the same up untill about two weeks ago ,it wasnt till i started buying baby clothes and other bits last week tht i started to feel excited ,with this one i didnt want to start buying things for her cause it didnt feel real but in these last few weeks ive actually started thinking im actually having another baby ,i didnt feel like this with my other two pregnancys i was excited all the way through ,my partner also thinks like me too he says he sometimes forgets we r having another but just recently he keeps saying oh not long now . xxx

i think maybe thats it, on Coby i had to re buy everything coz there is a 7 year gap between him and my other son, but this time round i have got everything from his pregnancy and i havent had to buy a thing yet really, only little bits.

All i can think about is getting my body and mind back when i should be thinking about the baby, its a tad worrying.

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as soon as i started buying bits i got this weird sort of feeling of wanting to see her i carnt stop going into her nursery now and looking at all the little clothes and touching everything ,i think alot of people have probably felt like this sometime during there pregnancy . ur feelings will start coming soon or even if they dont they will do as soon as ur babie is in ur arms

people keep asking me if I'm excited yet and the honest answer is no. I actually don't think that things are going to kick in with me until I'm holding the sprog in my arms

I bonded with Bethanie quite early on, but I wasn't overly busy at I wasn't working or anything. I put it down to you just being to busy to really think loads and over analyse. Im sure when you hold your little one it will all change though.

I'm still in a bit of a daze with my pregnancy so it changes for me.

I think for me the more I think about it the more I panic but I know I'm going to be over the moon when its that time